PYS 51st - How to get rid of EGO?

 PYS 51st - How to get rid of EGO?

P- Perfect is replacing E- Ego.
Enemy of want is greed, peace brings wants.
Peace is always there if we eliminate all unwanted elements.

Every one says I WANT PEACE. Just strike of  I n WANT.

Ego depreciates the Peace. U'll get d PEACE....

EGO....Lets have a look on it...                          

 EGO CORNERS. 1.INDIVIDUAL EGO -
a.Male ego leads to destruction.
b.Female ego leads to diversification.
c.Leadership ego leads to deafness.
d.Follower ego leads to blindness.

2.INSTIGATED EGO - hato nahi pann koi ae bhadko karyo.

3.INFLATED EGO - I cannot fail - belongs to egoistic nature.

4.INFLAMMABLE EGO.

EGO CULTURES
ABCD....
1.ARROGANCE
2.BOASTING
3.CLAIMING
4.DEFAMING.

-Karvaanu kaai nahi but bolvaanu bohu badhu.
-Claiming - Maine toh bola tha na..!!
-Defamation - Defaming competitors.

Ego clash --- Ego blast.

Je fu le chhe ae fu te chhe.
Koi diwas fulvaanu nahi ae vastu rotli thi sikhvaanu.

POWERS OF EGO - Ego can never come up without Power.

1.POLITICAL POWER. 2.PHYSICAL POWER. 3.FINANCIAL POWER.

-Ego never comes alone.
Eg: of a blind person.

Blind person never comes alone & Ego is blind.
Ego comes with loss which cannot be seen because its blind.

EGO CAUTIONS -
1.FACE VALUE - Don't turn egoistic on parents, teachers, guidors on their face.

2.NUISANCE VALUE - Don't get egoistic on Nuisance value. Better not to be egoistic on nuisance ppl. Where results are gonna be bad dont be egoistic.

3.OBSERVING RESULTS - When ego is coming out 1st analyse the results of ego.

"I am ready to reply but not apply".
"Taking initiative is a big solution to eradicate EGO".

Ego makes you loose opportunities.
We focus on problems but they focus on solutions.

The above point was in relation to an example how US reacted when their astronauts experienced that they could not write in space due to law of gravity with a pen WHEREAS Russia was happy as their astronauts used pencil in space to make notes of their experience.

Focussing on solution is very important.

-Aandhlaa no haath badha pakde pann ahankaari no haath koi na pakde.

-If I envy on what others have & I be proud on what I have is an ego personality.

4. PHILOSOPHY & KEEPING HIGH IDEALS -

- Keep high ideals with a philosophical track.

5.NATURE - Don't get ego in your nature.
Inbuilt quality of not being egoistic should be there in your nature.

-Person who gets satisfaction by name is lacking self- satisfaction.

Eg: of 2 persons Sachin Pawle & Sujit Sawant was given who had saved lives of thousands of people in Konkan in Nov'14 2nd last-last week when they saw a rail fracture & had ran towards the train into the tunnel without thinking of their lives.
Eventually bringing d train to a halt.
These guys didn't require motivation at that time rather were inspired.

Difference between motivation & inspiration.
Motivation - Comes from outside.
Inspiration - Comes from within.

EGO CURE -
1.REAL SELF ACKNOWLEDGEMENT -
Knowing what you don't know is real knowledge.

When someone asks you about knowledge answer in a  way that you don't have this knowledge in a humble way.

Knowing your own self ignorance
(Mane su nathi aavadtu).

2.LOOKING BEYOND YOURSELF - 
Author of book saying that I am not the author.
Eg: Yashovijayji Jainacharya who lived approx. 300 years back & was a master in writing scriptures in Jainism had done the same thing then.

3.TAKE IT EASY - 
Karta pehla bolo ae confidence & karya pachhi bole aene Ego kehvaay.

When you get appreciation & criticism how you receive it is what shows how you are?

4.STRIKING YOUR SPIRITUAL QUOTIENT.

5.FOLLOW TRADITIONAL PRACTICES/VALUES.

6.KEEPING STOP LOSS.

Last but not d least.
LIVE YOUR LIFE 4 ENLIGHTENMENT PURPOSE & NOT 4 NJOYMNT PURPOSE.

Jainam Jayati Shaashanam..!!

PYS no. 75 - 12th Feb'17, Sunday....!! Topic - "BALANCING EMOTIONS".

PYS no. 75 - 12th Feb'17, Sunday....!!

"Diamond Jubilee Session".

Venue - Onyx 7, GMDC Ground, Opp BRTS Bus Stop, Near Helmet Circle, 132 Feet Road, Memnagar, Ahmedabad.

Topic - "BALANCING EMOTIONS".

Sambodhan by 

Founder of PYS....!!

Thunder of Youth....!!

Wonder of Jinshaashan....!!

UPKAARI GURUDEV PUJYA ACHARYA SHRI UDAYVALLABHSURISHWARJI MAHARAJA....!!

Bharat Desh ek lok shaahi no Desh chhe. Lok shaahi nu parva aetle chutni (elections).

Donald Trump ketla varso thi jeeve chhe pann chhella 6-8 mahina ma aemnu vyaktitva baahar aavyu.

Ghanivaar badhaane potaani line vadhaare Kari naakhe ane bija ni ochhi Kari naakhe.

(Drawing lines v/s Erasing lines).

Eg of Gyani Jel Singh, 60 years back election history.

He was criticized but he remained silent but then he said a very nice sentence.

"Lagaao si ne mein teer, lekin yaad rahe aapki bhi jagaah mere si ne mein hai - Kahi aapko hi naa lag jaaye".

The depth of my character is judged when I am criticized 

I can measure my self.

Emotion is an asset.

School ma ek chhokra ne puchhva ma aavyu 7 wonders kayaa..??

I can think,

I can feel,

I can taste, 

I can smell,

I can hear,

I can see,

I can express.

Emotional imbalance becomes our liability.

"Heart v/s other organs of our body".

Jeremy C Brook - aemne ek book laikhi chhe - "Your health your planet".

Health resembles Heart.

Planet / Earth - "EARTH" & remove H from last & put it ahead in EARTH word it becomes HEART.

 He wrote the above line.

"THE HEART OF EDUCATION IS EDUCATION OF HEART."

Eg of Man v/s Dog.

Kyaarek Maanas Audi gaadi ma aavi ne Kutra nu accident kari naakhe.

Aane Maanas kehvaai....??

Kyaarek jarur padye - sniffer tarike lai jaai chhe - tyaari laad ladaave. Kyaarek gaadi ma saathe lai jaai round maarvaa.

"LOKO AANE MAANAS KE CHHE..!!".

Soft Heart shows your identity which in turn proves us as a Human being.

Eg of J C Bose. Jagdish Chandra Bose.

He wrote about practical life of plant. How they grow.

Ghani badhi Hindu school hostel o ma bhanaava ma aavtu ne aave chhe - how to water plants, how to fertilize them,

After 3 weeks the plant grows so nicely.

It proves - it has life, it is alive.

Education of heart - Sushrushaa Day.

Do you all try some day to go & feed poor people, in hospitals.

Eg of PYS students - of visiting hospitals for distribution of fruits - they have experience of patients how they feel happy / how they express.

Ghare mummy banana aape tyaare hu na khaau - side ma feki dau.

1 student said this  experience.

"He said I now understand the value of 1 banana".

Eg of 70 girls - All blind - there is such school in Dadar, Mumbai. They dont know what are colours.

Disabled person v/s mentally challenged.

Ghani vaar koi paagal khaana ma jaai tyaare ghanaa loko aava loko ne joi ne majaak udaavta hoi aena par hasta hoi, bichaaro pelo mentally challenged person pann potaana par hase aene samjhan na padtu hoi ke aa loko aena par hase chhe.

Sushrushaa day, Paanjrapole day - aava koi diwas ujvo.

Old age home - aama toh naam vaachyu chhe - "Dikra nu ghar". 

Cultural differentiation - Friend.

Eg of Bhaibandh - behenpani in Gujarati.

Tamaara jevaa intellectual maanaso ne aavu kem nathi sujtu...??

Eg of different days - Valentine day - kona maate ujvo chho? 

Je nathi malvaanu kyaare aene maate..??

Aena karta je ne koi malyu nathi - aeva loko saathe saara diwaso aemni saathe jai ne ujvo.

Economics - Arthashaastra - earlier maanav shaastra.

Education is emotionless.

Emotions - Human touch, it all has gone down.

Quote - "Shareer vadhyu pann buddhi vadhi nahi".

Competitive approach.

1 student asked - Saahebji aaj na world ma compete nathi karta toh hamaaro progress nathi thato.

Saahebji says I will tell you 6 types of progress.

1) Physical progress

2) Mental progress

3) Material / Financial progress

4) Social progress

5) Human progress (all 

6) Spiritual progress - Important....!!

Quote - The day we are born & the day we realise why we are born.

Eg of National Health Institute of Hyderabad - 

100 metre Race of 8 girls. 

Race started 1 girl fell down - all 5 came back & wiped her nose, took her together towards finishing line.

Vichaaro - tame sane loko aavu kyaare vichaaryu chhe..??

Aa difference chhe between Collective progress v/s Individual progress...!!

Me & I......!!

ME when picturised & shown upside down it reflects WE.

A picture is as good as 100 words.

Over mechanism.

Eg of Vihaar by Shraman Shramani Bhagwanto.

Human touch nikli gayo chhe ane nikalto rahese because of over mechanism.

Eg of Ghatkopar boy & his dad.

Mobile atirek - "Pehla no quote - An apple a day keeps a doctor away.

Ha ve An apple a day keeps everyone away..!!"

Line said by Steve Jobs - I have know understood what disastrous thing I have created.

He kept his children away from this apple device - he knew his side effects.

Eg of our Inner circle which has our parents (mummy pappa), brother, sister.

Ha ve toh android aavi gayu chhe.

There is no space in immer circle - pann koi tamaara jaan vagar andar praveshi rahyu chhe this is in context of relations of boys & girls.

Over materialism.

How much do you use water, petrol, diesel, electricity...??

GREEN HOUSE EFFECT..!!

Do you know population of US..?

400 billion.

Eg of a boy & his mother about inviting a guest to his house for lunch.

Consumption ratio - 1:7.

An American on an average consumes so much of water, electricity, food, etc..

THE WORLD CANNOT AFFORD ANOTHER AMERICA..!!

24% Carbon emission.

Vichaaro aapne tyaa aavu over consumption, over materialism culture aavi rahyu chhe.

Tamne jaanvu hoi toh amaari saathe aavo Vihaar ma - Eg of small kid running for water behind a tanker with bucket.

IF YOU WANT TO HELP POOR, STUDY THE RICH..!!

Exploitation of forth coming generation..!!

Aana maate koi aandolan nathi thataa.

Eg of small kid - jambu nu jaad todi naaikhu - ek jaambu maate.

Jaad todi naaikhu, jumkhaa todi naaikhaa, daal todi naaikhi, pann koi nathi vichaartu ke niche already jaambu paida chhe.

Eg of Leshya as per Jain Scriptures.

As per capacity,

As per opportunity,

As per possibility,

As per availability,

As per necessity,

As per responsibility.

Tame SHOWER leta vichaaro chho tame 1 maanas ketlu paani waapri naakho chho..??

Eg - Nal no ane nahaavaano awaaj bhego na thavo joiye.

Eg of screen creams, moisturizers.

Modha na shades khaali screen par dekhaai chhe ane badlaata dekhaai chhe - saache mein nahi.

Tub, Pub ne Club maathi baahar aavo.

Aa 4 kaarano (education is emotionless,  overconsumption, overmechanism) thi emotional imbalance create thaai chhe.

1 common fariyaad - parivaaro paase thi amaari paase.

Khaali kaam karya kare chhe parivaar ne time nathi aapta.

Tame badha commerce line waala chho - bhale pachhi arts, science, architecture lidhu hoi.

Aakhre toh biji line lai ne pann paisa j kamaavaana chhe.

"COMMERCIALISATION".

Tame 45 ni umare gujri jaao - jyaare tame puro time aakhi Company ne aapyo hoi aene upar laavama.

Ae loko toh 3 diwas ma tamaaru replacement goti lese.

Pann ghare maa baap, wife, naano chhokro ke chhokri hoi.

Ae loko ne toh jeevan bhar tamaaru replacement nathi malvaanu.

Capitalist culture - aama thodu socialist culture umero.

Eg of Tejas Shah, A PYS student.

PYS ni Green book ma vaachva jevu chhe Students Corner - From pages 32 to 44.

Khaas vaachjo aa pages.

Su impact laave chhe aa sessions.

Work lofe balance is very very important.

"Imbalance emotions ruins the life - Balance emotions creates the life."

"Always think for other angle & Always think from other's angle.."

Terrorism ma loko mare chhe - Mirrorism ma aapne marta nathi.

Eg of Karuna Workshop - Art of feeling.

Potaana bhog na emotions chhe aeni saathe jene kaai malyu nathi aena maate pann Kaai emotions laavjo.

For soft heart - 

1) balance it.

2) think - vichaar karo - koi pann decision leta pehla.

3) sambandh ek jhaatke todtaa pehla vichaar karjo.

4) Koi ne chhodta pehla vichaar karjo.

Eg of Husband wife v/s wife & small son.

Think both ways - 

5) Utaavalma decision leta pehla vichaarjo.

Thoda depression ma gaya aetle suicide karva 

6) Koi ni laagni no sweekaar karta sikho.

Buts, cuts, guts..!!

That man/woman is old whose mind is weak.

Eg of Gurudev himself of his sansaari life when he was small.

His values & morals created by his mummy.

Egs of NFS, counterstrike.

Tamne khabar pann nathi padti ke violence na roots kevi ri te tamaara maa aavi gaya chhe.

"Silence of good people is worst than violence of bad people".

Egs of Shaashan Sparshna Shibir students quiz & debates.

Next PYS - 26th Feb'17, Sunday.

Same Venue..!!

Topic: MIND - MY POWER BANK.

Shaashan Sparshna Shibir - 18th to 25th May'17. Venue - Songadh.

PYS sessions - 2nd April'17 Sunday & 16th April'17 Sunday, Ahmedabad.

Venues will be shared ASAP.

#PYSIsAlive....!! 

Jainam Jayati Shaashanam..!! 

"Yugo Sudhi Jhal Halse BhuvanBhanu Na Ajwaala"

PYS-7 Ahmedabad Sessions Saluting Sacrifice

PYS -7 23rd October'16, Sunday
Venue - Shri Chintamani Parshwanath Jain Derasar, Ayambil Bhuvan, Ramnagar, Sabarmati, Ahmedabad.
Topic - "Saluting Sacrifice".
Founder of PYS....!!
Thunder of Youth....!!
Wonder of Jinshaashan....!!
Upkaari Gurudev Param Pujya Panyas Pravar SHRI UDAYVALLABHVIJAYJI MAHARAJA....!!

While speaking of Sacrifice, first of all you have to give Sacrifice.

 Daneshwari karta balidaneshwari khub moto hoy che.For eg- 7-8 army persons plane avya.Plane ma e loko under under training sessions in vato karta hata.ema side ma bathela ek bhai sambhayi and emni aakho bhini thai gayi. Lunch avano time thayo and army persons e lunch levani na padi.Pela bhai e puchyu k Lunch Kem nathi leta.Tyare army persons e kidhu k ame lunch nahi laiye bcoz lunch bahu costly che and army persons e kidhu k ame to tewayela che. E bhai e tarat j reception par jai e badha army persons mate Lunch Pack karavdaya and emne apavdaya.E bhai seat upar betha and ek kaka e bhai ne amuk rs apya e pachi airlines na badha passenger badha e donate karya and army ppersons ne badha rs api didha.Army persons khub bhavuk thai gaya at that time e bhai e kidhu kTame amari raksha karo and ame tmaru bahuman na kariye.You are the only fellow who write a Blank Cheque written to my nation and Amount Uptill my life ends.

Mr batra an army officer taj hotel ma rokaya.Room Attendant avyo and salute karyo and emni jode selfie lidho and dhime dhime badha selfie leva mandya.Dinner karya gaya and akho staff e grand salute api.Taj Group of Companies e free of cost badhi facilities Mr batra ne api.Taj na Ceo ne Mr batra e Mail Karyo and emne thanks kidhu and tya thi mail avyo k ame Army na officers mate ame high Concessional rate par rakishu please badha army na officers taj hotel ma rakajo.Top Security fakt army ma j che baki koi field ma nathi.Army no jawan lapsi gayo toilet ma and brain hamrage thayu and e expire thai gayo. Defence e rs na padi bcoz at that time e duty par nahto.Supreme Court na justice e e army person ne paisa apdava bcoz emne kahyu ke army persons ungh ma pan shwas le to e desh mate leta hoy che.

Talent, virtues,brain power,ideology e badha ne appreciation male Che.Gandhji ni philosophy mate Gandhian University chale che ema at present 90% public out of india ni che.Gandhiji e emni life ne sacrifice kari che.

Sacrifice overrules Donation. For-eg Meghkumar example.

Patient Ventilator upar hato ne achanak power off thai gayo. E Vakte Docter e 15 minute potana hath vade e patient ne Pumping karine Jevidayo.This is Sacrifice.

1 Rs ma Patient ne Check kare che Ghatpokar ma ek Docter . This is Sacrifice.

Professor Tribhuvandas Gajjar e iodine chroline nu combination karine ne plague mate dava banavi and totally free oc cost ma all over india api.Top Pharma Companies emni jode avi and kidhu k patent amne api do and emne na padi didhi.I treat God Cures.Emne Crores ma rupees leave karine loko ni seva kari.Sacrifice ne duniya bhuli jay che.

Consititution Comittee independence vakte baneli.Ema Rajendraprasad par loko e ashepo mukya. Emne resignation apvanu nakki karyu and Gandhiji jode gaya. Gandhiji e kidhu k mari team ma ram,laxman, hanuman etc badha che and ek Shankar pan joiye che je poison pi le and badhu pachavi de and Rajendraprasad Babu e mann rakyu.Sentiment ne hurt thayo hoy and e sentiments ne najar andaj kare this was Sacrifice.

Singer Mukesh studio ma recording karta hata tyare ek message avyo ke emno ek fan icu ma che and eni jode have thoodak j kalako che Mukesh e recording bandh karyu and e fan ne icu ma malya gayo and ene 2-3 songs pan sambhavya.Arist pan Sacrfice apta hata.

Chopati par 2 chokra geet gata and Rs leta.Ek Person avyo and ene kidhu ke chalo hu pan gayu and ene songs gaya. Aa person Sehgal Saheb hata. Sacrifice at times is Sacrifice.

Chinu Modi and Rajeev Shukla wellknown writers.Chinu Modi e Rajeev Shukla ne emni lifetime ni savings api ne operation karavdayu.Jyare Rajeev Shukla e puchyu k tame atla rs kyathi lavya tyare emne kidhu k Mari mummy e kidhu k savings karje and me savings karine shares ma invest karela and mummye epan kidhelu k katokati na samay e kam lagse pan kona katokati samay e nahtu kidhu. Chinu Modi e kidhu k I have receive highest dividend today after helping you. This was sacrifice.

Every field ma sacrifice api sako. For Eg Sacrifice of Chadavo in Mumbai Virla.Kantilal nanalal e Emne emna Karyakarta o ne dhaja chadava mokalya.Emne emna Karyakarta ne appreciate karyo.Jeevan ma appreciate karta shiko.

For eg- Kohli ni sathe Bhuvaneshwar rame and 40 runs baki che and run hato nahi ne kohli run lidho at that time bhuvaneshwar e wicket sacrifice kari,e pachi umesh yadav avyo and India Win. At that time, Kohli will be the man of the Match but koi bhuvaneshwar kumar ne yaad nahi kare ke ene eni wicket sacrifice kari etle India wins.Sacrifice is one type of Performance.

For eg-3 bhaio ne papa emno part apvanu nakki karyu ema nana chokra e kidhu ke badhu hu decide karis.Badha agree thaya and ene agewise part apya .Mota bhai 38 years na hata to emne 38%, Middle bhai 34 years na hata to emne 34% and e 28 years no hato to ene 28%.Ene kidhu ke me mota bhai and middle bhai na sacrifice joy ache and hu etle 33% na lai saku. This is saluting Sacrifice.

Rupiya na Sambandh ni same Lagni na sambandh jata rahe che.Sacrifice karvani anand kaik alag j hoy che.For example Sayan ma ek bhai e Godiya Parnu lidhu and emne e Godiya Parnu C u Shah Hostel ma 39 Athai hati ema mokalyu.Tya na Chokra e radine emne gift apva gaya but emne na padi. This was Sacrifice.Thinking out of the box vicharo.

For eg-Sacrifice of Sun.

Papa Mummy Sacrifice na role Model che. Mummy papa ni Personal Life j nathi.Mummy Papa na koi personal achievements jevu kai nathi.

For eg Mumbai no Rushab Palitana ma chhat karine sath jatra karva eni mummy jode gayelo.First day Rushab ni tabiyat nathi sari and ene 5 jatra kari and eni mummy e 5 jatra kari.Badha Karyakarta e na padi k have second day rushab ne jatra na karavo to pan enii mummy e kidhu k na ene jatra karavani che. Second day eni mummy e ene 7jatra karai and eni mummy e divase Parnu kari didhu bcoz eni mummy ni tabiyat sari nahti and ene rushab ne jatra karavi hati.Jyare Rushabh n khabar padi tyare e khub radio and Mummy ne Puchyu k Mummy te parnu kem karyu? Tyare eni mummy nu statement hatu “Rushabh tari Sath jatra Rushabh na name and mari Sath Jatra pan Rushabh na name”. This is saluting Sacrifice.Nothing like personal achievements.

For eg Urvilbhai’s Father always tell that I am Urvil’s Father and emne kyare evi olkhan nathi api k Urvil maro Dikro che.

Mummy Papa na jeevan ma nothing like personal Luxuries.

Mummy papa na jeevan nothing like Personal Pleasures.

Mummy papa na jeevan ma nothing like Personal Necessities.

Mummy papa na jeevan ma nothing like Personal Priorities.

Mummy papa na jeevan ma nothing like Personal Negligence.Mobile rakho but charger and sim card tmara mummy papa che.Emna Vagar jeevan j nathi.

Mummy papa na jeevan ma nothing like Personal Humilation.Mummy e mummy tarike olkhie.Bija koi ni Mummy jode compare n karai.

Mummy Papa Sacrifice ni Murthy che.

7 Wide Angle view to see Mummy Papa Achievements.

1)When you fall,they stand as a wall-ek chokro bhada par cycle lai ne avyo and cycling karto daily. Ek divas eno accident thayo and ena papa ne phone karyo and ena papa 8 minute ma dispensary ma pohchya. Jevu ena papa e sambhayu emne sankalp karyo k Mara chokra ne saru thai jai to hu atthai karis.Next day thi paryushan chalu thata hata.Papa ne paryushan ma Lilotry khava joyie and jevu emne khabar padi k chokra ne saru che emne emna chokra mate atthai kari. This is saluting Sacrifice. E koi nai pan e chokro khud Udayvallabhvijayji maharaj saheb and Father Meghvallabhvijayji maharaj saheb che.

Sabarmati no j ek yuvan no chehro bali gayelo and ena father e skin donate kareli. This saluting Sacrifice.

2) When you fail, She gives you bail-Papa Mummy no Jordar Support Malto hoy che.

3) When you fear, She is always near-Mummy Jhansi ni rani bani ne tmara support ma j hoy.

4) When you Frustrate, She Illustrates/ Demonstrates- Mummy tamne Motivational Illustrations apine motivate kare che.

5) When you fight, She takes it very Light

6) When you fake, She says it was a Mistake

7) When you fool, She is always calm and cool.

Sacrifice ni bahu moti duniya che.Alpeshbhai Tapovan Example.

Je field ma cho ema Sacrifice Karo.

Acharya Padvi on 1st December,2016.
Next Last PYS in Ahmedabad – 20 November'16, Sunday.
Acharya Padvi on 1st December,2016.
Same Venue..!!
#PYSIsAlive....!!
Jainam Jayati Shaashanam..!!
"Yugo Sudhi Jhal Halse BhuvanBhanu Na Ajwaala"

PYS No. 60.....!! 👏👏👏" HOW TO DEAL WITH THE 'UNEXPECTED' "

Sambodhan by our 1 & only Master Blaster Gurudev Param Pujya Panyas Pravar UdayvallabhVijayji Maharaja.

US ka koi aadmi tha jo Pacific ocean mein sehalgaah ke liye nikla, 60 din ke liye ek chhoti si boat mein nikal pada. Peene ke liye paani nahi tha. Paani ke beech mein reh ke bhi samundar ka paani nahi pee sakta tha. Ghumte ghumte Europe pohcha. Baad mein usne ek book likhi thi - "60 days in Pacific."
Jahaa usne likha tha ki
Just if I had a piece of bread & a glass of water toh aur achhi tarah teek jaata.

Yeh kab pata chala usse..? Jab woh Pacific mein aaya aur sehalgaah ki tab pata chala.
Jab ghar pe rehte hai tabhi samajte nahi hai ki kya hota hai necessity...
Aur usne cheezo ko divide kiya 3 zones mein.

1) Necessity zone
2) Comfort zone
3) Luxury zone

U should write an essay - 60 PYS ka output kya raha aap ke liye woh aaj nahi par (2035-40-42) ki saal mein uska valuation hoga.

What positive output it has given for u..?
Kya sahi lagta tha aur woh galat nikla OR kya galat lagta tha aur woh sahi saabit hua....!! Yeh sab cheezein aapko abhi clear hogi apni life mein.

Recap about Paansar Tirth (praachin tirth) 92nd saalgiri & shibir done there with youngsters.
Wahaa ki Bhagwan ki Murti, derasar, dharamshaala, bhojanshaala, takiye sab 92 saal puraana. Humne bandaro ke beech aadmi o ko leke shibir ki thi.

Everyone expects basic necessity...!!

Shankheshwar gaye aur waha tirth dekha, dharamshaala dekha, bhojanshaala dekha. Waha achha mila toh hum uski achhi advocacy karte hai.
Kya achhi facilities hai..!!

Par yahi cheez apne sasural mein Diwali ka khaana khaane gaye.
Saale ne aur Sasurji ne roti, dal, shaak, bhaat, papad, chatni khilaaya.
Tabhi patni se ladte hai yeh kya khaana khilaaya tere baap ne..??
Pann aaj sasra ae derasar ma koi laabh lidho hoi toh Pappa pappa kai ne hu aavyo aem ghusi jaai vachhe.

Aisa kyu hua..?
Bcoz u were not expecting anything in Shankheshwar Tirth but u were expecting a lot in your sasuraal.

Sorrow is not a product but a mental state.....!!

Saahebji ka vihaar ho jaaye aur 6 mahine baad Guruji ko milna hai aur sthirthaa Ahmedabad mein hai.
Tabhi sochte hai jaayengey toh rahengey kahaa...??

Tabhi Ek PYS ka dost Ahmedabad waala jo bulaate rehta tha Mumbai ki shibiro ke time pe woh yaad aa gaya.
Aap suspense dengey soch k jaate ho aur woh nahi hota ghar pe tabhi thoda dukh hota hai.
Par yahi cheez jab aap bataake jaate ho aur woh gharpe nahi rehte toh aur zyaada dukh hota hai, jhatka lagta hai.
Q ki aap woh cheez expect nahi karte they.
Yeh jo UNEXPECTED hua tabhi aadmi dukhi hota hai.

Eg of a friend for starting up a business & he needs help in terms of Capital.

Assurance diya hota hai tabhi dukh zyaada hota hai.
Jabhi ek friend assurance deta hai ki party mein woh zarur aayega par nahi aaya tabhi apna focus 50 friends k presence k badle 1 hi friend ke absence pe hota hai.

Aaj mehengaai itni hai par aap bataao yeh last dedh (1.5) years se hai ya last 50 saal se hai.
Modiji ne vaada (assurance) diya tha par woh result nahi aaya uske liye aaj sab ke saamne unka image down hua hai.
Aisa aapko nahi lagta..??

Mehengaai, age, interest rate har saal badte hi rahengey.

Rather his statement should have been "Hope for the best & be ready for the worst...!!"
Aisa agar Modiji ne bola hota toh itni beijjati nahi hoti naahi unka image down hota.

Fark itna hai ki boli hui cheez ki delivery nahi hui uske liye public naaraaz hai.

2) Comparison.
Comparison jab hota hai tabhi expectation hota hai.
Jabhi kisi se compare kiya jaata hai tabhi expectation rehta hai.
Competition hota hai tabhi expectation hota hai.

3) Position - Jabhi Position hota hai ek aadmi ka aur woh kuch bada expect karte hai par as per his position aur agar nahi mila toh dukh hota hai.

4) Efforts - Jabhi efforts daalte hai par expectation ke hisaab se result nahi aaya toh dukh hota hai. Eg of a CA student who puts in all his efforts & gives sacrifices. But fails in exams.

5) Relations - Jab achha relations hota hai tabhi expectations hota hai par agar expected result nahi mila toh dukhi hote hai.

Ek husband-wife ke relation mein jabhi wife ko lagta hai kya office mein bhi office ka kaam aur gharpe bhi aake office ka kaam leke aaye hai husband. Toh mere liye time kab..?
"She wants him to be under him..."
Aur husband ko lagta hai abhi mandi hai, time hai, energy hai, enthusiasm hai, expansion karne ki taakat hai dhandhe mein toh wife itna nahi samaj sakti.
Puri life saath mein hi hai na toh do saal ke liye samaj nahi sakti wife.
"He wants she to understand..".

Aaj ki ladki ko 1 partner, 2 achhe dost, 3 week ka holiday, 4 paaiyo waali BMW, 5 room waala penthouse aur 6 digit monthly salary waala chahiye.

Eg of 15-20 taxi waala not waiting for u par woh Pink t-shirt waala friend jiss ke paas bike hai par woh nahi ruka toh expectation ke hisaab se nahi hua toh aapko dukh hota hai.
Kyu ki hum expect karte hai ki dost hai, building mein rehta hai, bike pe ek seat khaali hai par fir bhi nahi bithaaya aur le gaya.

"DON'T EXPECT AGAR SUKHI HONA HAI TOH....!!"

Ek aadmi jabhi sant ke paas hit-shiksha lene aaya Delhi mein.
Sant hit-shiksha dijiye, jaao woh aadmi ko thappad laga ke aao, tabhi woh aadmi sochta hai yeh kya hua.
Laga k bhi aaya aur sant ne puchha thappad maara kya..?
Haan maar ke aaya, woh aaya waapis maarne saamne..? gusse waala glare diya..? Nahi Santji nahi diya.

Bas issi tarah se Social work mein tumhe ho sakta hai. Kabhi gaali pad sakti hai, kabhi achha bhi bola jaayega.

"DON'T EXPECT THAT U WILL GET RESPECT EVERYTIME..!!"
Agar Social aadmi ho, society ke liye kaam karna hai toh Gaali bhi mil sakti hai aur waah-waahi bhi mil sakti hai.

Examples of Mitchell Johnson cricketer who retired last week, Paris ke logo laga tha ki aisa terrorist attacks hoga.
All Unexpected events....!!
"Humne socha ta kuch aur nikla kuch.." Toh how to deal with the Unexpected.

4 point formula..!!
Go on the other side, See on the other side.

Does it always mean that Unexpected things OR events are only DISASTERS in your life..!!
No, it many a times those are positive things as well.

Arthur Ash, Wimbledon tennis player.
Arthur Ash was being operated & during blood transfusion for operation wrong bottle of blood was by mistake given to him which was a virus.
It affected him so badly that he had to retire from tennis.
People had prayed for him, also sent him get well soon messages.
A small boy had written a letter to him - Why did God select you when you have given so much to the country.
Please ask God why did he select you for this...?
Arthur Ash had nicely replied "I have been a champion for the country, I have never asked God "Why me" when he selected only me as a Champion out of approx. 5 crore people.
5 lac people played tennis out of which 50,000 were selected for tennis tournament out of which 10,000 were selected for professional tennis out of which 500 were selected to play professionally out of which only 50 were able to participate out of which only 4 went into semifinals out of which 2 entered finals & in finals I won & the other lost..!!
So if I din't ask him WHY ME then in such situation how can I ask him..??
Such an Unexpected thing had happened in his life but still Arthur Ash looked the other side & took it positively.

Examples of boys-girls who have done 16 upwaas, 30 upwaas, updhyaan tap, chhatth kari ne saat jaatra, etc. Yeh sab Unexpected hi tha na kisko pata tha ki sab successfully ho jaayega.

7 spots of Unexpected behaviour & how your mom helps u to overcome them..!! which will always remain in your life.
"ALWAYS REMEMBER..".

When u fall, she stand like a wall.
When u fail, she gives u bail
When u fear, she takes u near
When u frustrate, she just demonstrates
When u fight, she takes it light
When u fake, she considers as a mistake
When u fool, she takes it calm n cool.

Bachpan ke scenarios kabhi life mein bhulna nahi, hamesha positive portfolios yaad rakhna.

Jab mein pappa se darta hai (Eg of a boy jo Juaa khel ke haar gaya tha tabhi), jab kutte se darta tha hamesha MAA aa jaati hai.

MAA apne bachhe ke liye bhi kitna dedicated rehti hai, hum kitne kathor shabd bol dete hai - hunterwaali, worst woman on earth aise shabd bol dete hai.
Yeh sab Unexpected cheezo mein bhi kitni positively help karti hai.
Hamesha Zindagi mein yeh yaad rakhna aap log aur aise bolne ke pehle do baar sochna...!!

Eg of Rusbhabh, a PYS student of Gowalia Tank on his experience of his mom's sacrifice for him.
He was in St. Xavier's School in 5th STD. His books were incomplete & his teacher had called his mom next day with complete books. His mom sat from 7pm in evening till 3.30am in night to finish the book & next day morning at 6.30am breakfast was also ready.
He wondered how was this possible..
She came to school & even showed complete books to teacher & scolded her that how dare u beat my child.

Hum Kyu sab bhul jaate hai jab hum jhooth bolte hai tabhi Maa hi support karti hai.
"See the other side".

Jabhi ek dost jhooth bolti hai tabhi aapne expect nahi kiya tha toh aap dukhi ho jaate ho.

Kya aapne socha tha ke kabhi aap 3 ghante yaha PYS mein aake bethengey...??
Woh bhi Sunday ke din, Shibir ke liye, Maharaj Saaheb ke paas, Vyakhyaan ke liye.
Aap ke liye Yeh sab toh allergic hai na.

Aap ke life mein PYS jo aaya woh bhi toh unexpected raha hai. Aapne socha tha 10-20-35-45-50-55-60 aaj itni shibir attend karengey..

Jitna aap logo ne nahi paaya hai utna yeh 5 saalo mein maine iss Udayvallabhvijay Maharaj ne paaya hai PYS mein se.

Mujhe aaj bhi woh Irla ki 1st shibir yaad hai jabhi Jayghoshsuri Dada ne kahaa tha Sunday ko 15 se 30 saal ke bachho/youngsters ke liye shibir chaalu karo.
1st day toh tension mein tha 25 bhi aayengey k nahi pataa nahi par pura hall pack ho gaya tha.
Aur aaj hum 60 tak pohoch sa ke.

Jayghoshsurishwarji Maharaja ne yeh jo UNEXPECTED kaam mujhe saupa tha par mere liye toh yeh kaam UNEXPECTED tha.

Eg of Bahaadmantri. Kumarpaal Maharaja ke mantri they. 1220-25 AD mein jabhi Palitana mein upar jirnodhaar hua tha woh bahaadmantri ne karodo rupye kharch kar ke karvaaya tha.
Ek din ek aadmi sirf bataaya ki jirnodhaar ho chuka hai tabhi unhone prasannit ho ke woh aadmi ko paise diye they.
Thode dino baad uss aadmi ne waapis bataaya ki ek kharaab samachar hai - derasar ki shilaa ein hil gayi hai Hawa ke dabaan ke wajah se.
Fir jirnidhaar karna padega. Bahaadmantri ne fir unko pause diye.
Woh aadmi ne puchha kharaab samachar pe bhi paise dete ho.
Tabhi bahaadmantri ne bataaya ki koi aadmi bohot saare bhav paa kar 1 mein aisa laabh le paata hai par Yeh kamnaseeb Bahaadmantri ko 1 hi bhav mein 2 baar mauka mila Prabhuji ke derasar ke jirnodhaar ka.
Unexpected event mein bhi itni positivity.

Eg of Truptiben of Andheri & experience of her Mom when her sister was diagnosed with diphtheria & she had gone to hospital.
Trainee doctor by mistake had given an injection to her mom instead of her sister.
Her mom started vomiting during night aur unki haalat bohot hi naazuk ho gayi thi.
When senior doctor visited & came to know that because of trainee doctor this has happened. He suspended him but trainee cried & begged for his mistake & requested not to dismiss him as he was from a poor family. Her mom requested the doctor not to suspend the trainee. Doctor said Aapka kuch lagta rehga tabhi aap aisa bolte ho, par main dusre patients ko risk mein nahi daal sakta.
Her mom said he has said sorry for his mistake & it was not intentional hence please keep him as it is a question of his career as well.
Doctor later obliged.
Can you even think of such a compassionate nature after all she was a mother. It was totally unexpected what had happened but still.

Eg of a Aunty - whose chain was stolen, she prayed to God that Bhagwan mein expect nahi karti aur jaanti hu ki chain mujhe waapis nahi milne waali hai par uss ladke ke liye itna praarthana karti hu ki usko aise aashirwaad do ki yeh last chori ho uski life ki aur woh achhe raaste pe aa jaaye.
Kya aap aisa soch bhi sakte ho....?????

Eg of Mehul whose hand had to be cut-off when during earthquake entire building had fallen down & he was under the debris. He was in unbearable pain could not even move his hand a bit. Soldiers who had come for rescue told that right hand kaatna padega aur koi ilaaj nahi hai.
Kisi ne puchha yeh kya ho gaya Mehul..?
Tabhi Mehul ne bohot achha aur haste hue jawaab diya - "Agar sar pe yeh slab girta toh yeh do haath kuch kaam ke nahi hote.
Par aaj sar salaamat hai toh dusre haath se kaam kar ke jeevan nikaal lunga.
Kya aap ko andaaza bhi hai ki kitni positivity hogi Mehul mein...??

Eg of a person of Virar. When they had gone to Mall for shopping & in parking lot when a truck was taking reverse iron rods passed through his body in car as he was not alert.
For entire life he has become bedridden with a wife & a daughter. Wife still has stayed through tough times cause she understood the difference that yeh Unexpected cheez hui hai unke pati ke saath. Karmasatta ruthi hai.
Aaj ki koi ladki hoti toh divorce de deti.
Salute to his wife...!!

How to deal with the disasters - think/see on the upper side...!!

Hum hamesha bolte hai ki "Jiss ke paas aankh nahi hoti usse aankh ki kimmat puchho, aur jiss ke paas MAA nahi hoti hai usko MAA ki kimmat puchho."
Still will treat our mother badly.

Examples of Mark Boucher, Nari Contractor.

Mark Boucher was 3 Tests away from 150th test & 1 dismissal away from 1000 dismissals in 1st class cricket.
As fate would have - during a practice match against Pakistan, Imran Taahir bowled a batsman & a bail ricocheted on his left eye & he lost vision in his eye.
He had to take retirement with immediate effect.

Nari Contractor during 1960s was just about 28 years old & was struck on his head by a bouncer from a West Indian pacer. He had to retire from International cricket although he played Ranji post it but being a superb cricketer his fate had other things for him.

Superside, Otherside, Upperside & Lowerside.
This is called "SOUL therapy".

Superside is based on KARMA theory..!! Whether you believe it or not.

Eg of Mr. Clarke who had to go an a Ship with the entire family.
At that time a dog bit his son & they were not allowed on a ship.
They cursed the dog a lot but after 15 days the same ship sank, it was none other than "THE TITANIC".
At that time his feelings changed & his family felt whatever happened, happened for good & they thanked that Dog because of whom they could not sail.
Fate had something else in store for them which was good & positive.

Eg of Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel.
Jab woh sirf 14 saal ke they tabhi unko ek haath pe pus ki fodi thi.
Tabhi kisi ne unko bataaya tha ki Baal kaatnewaale ke paas chale jaao woh inka ilaaj kar sakte hai.
Woh gaye aur wahaa garam iron ke rod lagaane padte hai par woh aadmi dar gaya aur Sardar Vallabhbhai ko mana kar diya ki aap chhote ho aapko vedna hogi woh main nahi dekh paaunga.
Sardar ne khud ek haath mein Rod leke shek le liya aur ekdum sthir rahe, 3 baar aisa kiya tabhi woh pus ki fodi fut gayi.
Kitni himmat thi chhoti umra mein hai.
Iske liye hi unko "Loh-purush" ka naam mila.

When you fall in business, when you fail in CA exams, when you fail in relationship, etc..
Be strong.

When a loss is inevitable enjoy the loss.

Hum 200 baar kisko punishment dene ki, 200 baar complaint karte hai.
Par abhi se itna karo ki Only for twice (2 times) hum do achhe kaam karengey, kabhi kisko maafi deni, etc..

If you see for superside, punya khatam ho gaya toh bure din aate hai.
Punya ki poonji for refill karni padti hai.

Eg of Kalpeshbhai of Samkit Yuvak Mandal.
Ek baar Palitana mein sab deri o mein Abhishek karaane they, unhone aur ek volunteer (Malad waale) ne puri roop-rekha tayyaar ki thi.
Par jabhi Palitana gaye aur list ki zaroorat padi tabhi yaad aaya ki list toh Malad mein hi reh gayi.
Pehle thode hich-khichaaye par fir Kalpeshbhai ko bataaya ki list toh Ghar hi reh gayi.
Kalpeshbhai ne kuch bhi reaction diye bina sirf itna hi puchha - humne 15-20 din pehle list banaayi thi woh thodi bhi yaad hai, toh inhone haan bola aur for woh baith gaye saath mein fir se.
Baad mein inhkne Kalpeshbhai ko puchha ki
How did you manage this disaster.
Unhone achha jawaab diya ki agar mein react karta toh jo thoda bhi yaad tha list ke baare mein woh bhi bhul jaata.

When there is a problem, if you react then you won't get solution.
Always Go for solution.

Adbhut maahol, everyone has requested Gurudev for 1 more PYS i.e.: PYS no. 62 enroute to Ahmedabad from Borivali.
Gurudev nicely replied that PYS will always be with you. You just have to be careful & alert so that teachings till date will be of help to you.

PYS No. 63....!!Learn to Lead

17th July'16, Sunday.
Venue - Shri Chintamani Parshwanath Jain Derasar, Ayambil Bhuvan, Ramnagar, Sabarmati, Ahmedabad.

Topic - "LEARN TO LEAD".

Sambodhan by 1 & only:
Founder of PYS....!!
Thunder of Youngistan....!!
Wonder of Jinshaashan....!!
Master Blaster Upkaari Gurudev Param Pujya Panyas Pravar SHRI UDAYVALLABHVIJAYJI MAHARAJA....!! 

PYS nu start hamesha alag ri te thaai chhe.
Kyaarek koi example thi thai chhe, sensitive example thi thai chhe.

Ek PYS ni dikri ae lakhelo kaagal ame Mumbai thi Ahmedabad Vihaar kari ne aavya tyaare dhyaan thi vaachyo.

Aena pappa ni tabiyat kharaab thai gayi hati, ghanaa kapraa diwaso kaadhyo chhe. Toh pann pappa kyaare naasi paas thayaa nathi.

Business na kaam bohu taklif thai hati, chemotherapy karaavya pachhi pappa bus ma ghare paachaa jaai. Ae time ae taxi pann nathi parvadti.

Mummy expire thai gaya pachhi pappa aavta school ma.

3 sisters maa ni sauthi naani behen ae 2015 pachhi no lakhelo kaagal, main letter pachhi na bijaa 6 pages.

School na award function ma chhokri ae javaanu ae teacher ne ke maara mummy nathi. Pappa ae kidhu taare school ma kevaanu nahi ke taara mummy nathi.
Kahi devaanu mummy aavse kaale.

Mummy na gaya pachhi pappa ae 1 kalaak vehlaa uthi ne badhu mummy nu kaam sambhaali lidhu.

16-18 varas ni umar ae college javaanu thayu tyaare pappa chhokri ne besaadi ne samjaavyu.

Ek bday no prasang - pappa ae mane choviyaar karta ane chopsticks thi pann khaata sikhvaadyu chhe.

We r blessed to have such a father in our life that he has sacrificed his entire life for all 3 of us.

Pappa badhu saathe samjaave amne - sports, economics, political news par dhyaan aape.

He has never scolded us, haath upaadvaani vaat aj durr chhe.

Maybe 12-14 varas in umar ae thodu gusse thai gaya pann 10mins ma aavi ne room ma SORRY kahi ne gaya.

Kyaare koi kaam nathi karya ghar na ame 3 ae pann amne toh raani ni jem raakhya chhe.

1) aadarsh leader kevaa hoi.
Father, mother, friend, mentor, crystal.

He has a never say die spirit.
He has a spirit of a father, heart of a mother, mind like a friend, brain like a mentor, shine like a crystal.

Just imagine the situation in 1998,
Ghar ne upar laavaanu.

He refers books - shares all the knowledge, dawaa lidhi ke nahi. Ae pann office na busy schedule maathi 12.05 ae time kaadhi ne.

Eg of Edison - he failed in laboratory. Aakhi aag laagi gayi.
He was told - aag laagi ne badhu bali gayu, u have destroyed.
He said - I have failed but will start fresh again.
As maari nishfalta pann nikli gayi aama. There's no proof of my failure.
Ha ve hu jaldi success melvis.

"Success is a road which is always under construction."

Success comes due to perfection, perfection comes due to practice.
Practice is due to failure, hence it is proved that "SUCCESS IS DUE TO FAILURE".

Pachhi frustrate nahi thavaanu, naasi pass nahi thavaanu.
Kyaare thaakvaanu nahi.

Ek kisso vaachyo.
Eg of 1 - Mrs. Sheila Ghosh at the age of 83. At the young age of 83....!!

Frymes banaave, roj na 280kms nu travelling kare Kolkata sudhi aa umar ae jaai, majuri kare ane mahina na 8-10000 kamaai ane Ghar chalaave.

"That man is old whose mind is weak."
"Jenu magaj nablu chhe ae gardo chhe."

Karunashankar naam na maastar - Gambhira gaam, Sabarmati thi najeek.

Bhavaaio ni group aaveli - naatak company khub ashleel bhaasha vaapri ne naatak chalaave.
Mastar ne thayu naana baalako jova jaai chhe, aa na chaale.
Aemne aemna 1.5 (dodh) mahina no pagaar aapi didho. Naana chhokra-chhokri oni sambhaal kairi.

Mind like a friend - kharaab aadat maathi baahar kaadhaave.
Aapan ne khabar chhe aapni ane aapna friends ni haalat.

Eg of England cricket team - latest 2016 T20 World Cup.

Tamne badhaane khabar chhe su thayu final ma.

Eg of Eoin Morgan - captain.( best example)
Naani saras speech aaipi hati, it is not publicised much.

1st target - hu maafi maangu chhu aakhaa tamaara deshvaasi oni.

Atyaar na situation joi lo - amaari par su vityu chhe ae tame deshvaasio jaano chho.
Ame 11 pann rami ne haarya chhe. Amaari situation samji ne ek emotional appeal kairi.
Please don't react.

2nd target - Press.
Last 4 ball nu vadhaare analysis nahi karta.
Tame please nahi lakhtaa - it is a part of game & life - kyaarek success - kyaarek failure.

3rd target - directly to Ben Stokes.
Tu please hass - ane hasaavi ne j karyo.
He was told we have won a lot - and credit was given to all 11.
At the time of failure - it should be distributed between 11 of us WHY you alone..??

He showed superb ability of being a leader.
Be a mentor, use your brain like a mentor.

Psychology aakhi badli naaikhi badhaani.

Tamaaro chhokro kyaare aagal fail thaai - u have not failed, u have got 1 more chance to prove your failure.

Inspirational leader, thought leader, motivational leader & transformational leader.

Autocratic leadership - he does all alone with his own rule.

Situational leadership - cricketer a captain comes on crease - he understands as per the situation - 84/6 chhe pann bhaai 184/6 thaai tyaa sudhi takvaanu chhe.
Six ni demand par dhyaan na apaai.

1) Power of stability.

Aaj na yuvaano ek taklif - paani jaldi chadhi jaai ane paani jaldi utri pann jaai.

First learn then lead. When u have opportunity to learn please learn & then u will get a chance to lead.

2) Art of Maturity.
Maturity vagar leadership aavti nathi.

Eg of Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel, Mahatma Gandhi, Jawahar Lal Nehru.

Acharya Kripalani was told by Gandhiji to have a name of Jawahar Lal Nehru.
List ma Jawahar Lal Nehru nu naam hatuj nahi.

Recommendation aapyu Gandhiji ae Jawahar Lal Nehru maate.

12 janaa tamaari tarfen ma hataa - Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel ne.
He was smart & shrewd.

Neta bole chhe kutra o ne joi ne - tame kutraao ladho chho ek haadkaa na tukdaa maate.
Tyaare kutro jawaab aape chhe - tame neta o ladho chho ek jaad na tukdaa maate (satta ni khursi).

Eg of Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel & his brother Vitthal Patel (V Z Patel) for Barrister degree.
Letter had come for him from University for Barrister degree but since his brother Vitthal Patel had opened it & he too wanted to become a Barrister - Sardar aemni bhaavna samjhi gaya ane kidhu bhai tame pehla lai lo degree.

During partition - sanyukt Bhaarat ane Pakistan na 375 crores hataa.
55 crores aapvaana ane 320 crores raakhvaana.

Baapu bohu udaardil hataa.
Pann army na chief ae sidhu kidhu Shastro kyaa chhe.

Conditional tharaav pass kariye. Shastro Pakistan aape tyaare j paisa aapvaana.

"Ladhvu hoi toh prem karvu nahi ane Prem hoi toh ladhvu nahi".

Baapu ae upwaas nu shastra upaadyu.
Media conference thai - Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel ne puchhvaa maate - tame statement kem badlyu - tyaare aemne kidhu desh maate Baapu vadhaare important chhe maara vachan nahi.

Bhaai maate balidaan, Baapu maate balidaan.

3) Effective Authority.

Achhe din aayengey kai ne Modiji nu naam chhe - pann ek diwas tyaa jai ne ubha raho ane jowo.

30th Jan'1948 - Birla House - Death of Gandhiji.
Nathuraam Ghodse ae saanj ni Aarti darmyaan 3 goli maari didhi.

Sardar's words - Baapu ni hatya thai chhe ane maarnaaro ek Hindu j chhe.
Ek vaakya aapyu ane aemne ketlaa badha nirdosh maanso (Muslims) ne marta bachaavya.

Desh ne je bachaavyu chhe - aetle toh aemna putlaa bane chhe - "Statue of Unity".

Su Maanas hataa ae, Iron Man pann naam naanu chhe aemna maate.

Eg of when his wife was dying. He had to fight a case for his client.
He fought that but at the same time his wife died.
But what sacrifice by him.

What a superb individual, what an art of maturity. Bhaarat nu naam ane Garima su bachaaivi chhe aemne.

"Face the challenge, win the challenge."

Eg of people doing away with Gas subsidy on request of Modiji.
1 crore families happily gave it away.

This is called Effective Leadership.

Eg of Lal Bahadur Shastriji - PM of India.
When there was scarcity of food grains - he had said aapna deshvaasi o upwaas kari ne sambhaal kari sa ke chhe.
But I will not beg in front of the world.
Somvaare upwaas karo.
This was effective authority.

Eg of a girl who was a prostitute, Gandhiji had called her a beti.
She wanted to donate for independence cause & gave away her 4 bangles which were of his naani, not even of her own nor even her mothers.

4) Sense of responsibility.

Eg of Dr. Kalaam & Dr. Satish Dhawan.

Agni missile launch was failed - Dr. Satish Dhawan took d responsibility being the boss.

Later when it was a success - mikes were towards Dr. Satish Dhawan for comments - he went aside & asked Kalaam to comment on success.

Sikhvaa jevu ��
Kalaam saaheb's statement - "Bear your failure, share your success."

"Saaru thaai toh claim, failure thaai toh blame".

"There r many faces behind your success but mind well you are only responsibility for your failure".

Eg of Kalam & how he took care of his subordinate's family responsibility of taking out for a day.

Eg of boys v/s fathers,
Girls v/s mothers.

Chhokrao tame kem pappa ne help na kari sako, responsible bano.

Chhokrio tame kem mummy ne help na kari sako Ghar na kaam ma, aeni friend aave, tamaari friend aave, aemna saasu ni friend aave badha ma ae kaam kare ae kya no niyam chhe.
"Jaldi tamaara badha no vaaro aavse jyaare tame MAA-BAAP ni bhumika ma haso..!!"

Gurudev knows 1 family -
Eg of 2 brothers - studying in 10th & 12th - they go for putting newspapers in other houses in early morning.

They understand the responsibility of father how he earns when many @ home are ill & expenses are at top, they helped.

"Where to share & where not to share" - that too is an act of maturity & responsibility.

Eg of Historic Hathisingh nu 52 Jinalaya waalu Derasar.
Harkorben sethaani - she was a tough lady who knew how deal with all.

Derasar nu kaam karta ek maanas ae chori karvaani try kairi.
Bija diwase Harkorben ae line ubha hataa ae samji gaya

Eg of 1 leader - how he understands the need of his employees. He does not increase salary - but gives appropriate bonus so that his family is taken care of.

Eg of Shalibhadra. Story of kheer.

5) Temptation free character.
Eg of Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel. Zaverben when died, he lived for 75 years & he was compelled to remarry again.
He could not say No. But he was strong that the day the new wife walked in, he had walked out of life.

He had a small vyasan - bidi smoking - he was smart - he was put in Sabarmati Jail - superintendent offered him a bidi.
But he denied because he knew aaje bidi aape chhe - kaale desh ni information kadhaavse.

A student asked - aaj na corporate world ma character hovu kya jaruri chhe....??

Ans:
Eg 1) Shane Warne - he was best at cricket but his affairs brought him down.

2) Azharuddin - once involved in match fixing he did not get support & was thrown out even being a Legend player.

3) Tiger Woods - he was the best golf player but once his extra-marital affairs were out his name & brand was down.
Markets being at TOP, the brands of which he was a brand ambassador - were down 40-60% on that day.

Aa gully no kutro hoi ae bhase tyaare - ae gully no raja.
Ae biji gully ma jai ne bhase tyaare ae gully no kutro aave tyaare ae raja hoi Bas aem aj "Career aa gully no raja, Character aetle aa duniya no raja".

Eg of Jayghoshsurishwarji M.S. -
Bhadrankarvijayji M.S. ae aemna Guru.
Dawaa ni bottle tuti gayi,
Aemne puchhyu aa Kon chhe tyaare bijaa Gurubhagwant ae kidhu aa Jayghosh Muniraj chhe.

Ae bolyaa aa dabbi ma dawa nathi bharto - bohu badhu punya baandhe chhe.

Ae aapna Gachhadhipati Shrimadvijay Jayghoshsurishwarji Maharaja....!! 

550 muni o na - naam jaane, akshar jaane, awaaj jaane.

Various other examples of his superb authority.

"If you want to lead the people, follow them".

"Lok laagni samajhtaa sikho..!!"

Difference between Boss & a Leader.
Boss says GO - leader says LET'S GO.
Boss KNOWS HOW THE WORK IS DONE - leader KNOWS HOW THE WORK IS TO BE DONE.

Michael Jordan born in US in 1963 - not basketball player.
They were poor. His father told take this tee-shirt - go sold it for 1dollar - how can I..?
But his father knew he was a marketing champ. It goes above to 2 dollars, 20 dollars & then 2000 dollars.

"Good behaviour follows everything".

"SAME PRODUCT DOES NOT FETCH A LOT, BUT MARKETING OF SAME PRODUCT FETCHES A LOT".

Next PYS No. 64 - 15th Aug'16 Monday - Same Venue..!!

‪#‎PYS‬ IS ALIVE.....!!