PYS No. 56 - "Art of Feeling". Gowalia Tank.

Feeling aetle sanvedna. Feel karo toh laagse nahi karo toh nahi laage.

A man is an address of #sentiments. There are various sentiments - religious, social, socio-religious, cultural, self-oriented sentiments, etc..

We give more importance to self-oriented sentiments, that my personal sentiments should always be taken care off - it should never be hurt.

There are many social sentiments as Maitri, #Karuna, Pramod Bhavna.

Badha pratye Maitri bhaavna raakhvi (feeling of brotherhood), badha pratye karuna bhaavna raakhvi (feeling of motherhood) - Eg of how a Mother takes care, tame adosh-padosh na loko saathe kevo vyavahaar karo chho (feeling of otherness).

Feelings of religious sentiments, Eg: of Rohit Shah of Mid-day who has been continuously writing negative articles on Jain Saints hurting religious sentiments of Jains time & again.

Bharat desh ni visheshta ae hati k ahiya na loko IQ, EQ, SQ maate jaanita hataa.

Eg: of Aryabhatta inventing 'Zero' known for his intelligence quotient which is known to the entire world.

Eg: of Steve Jobs - when he started searching for spiritualism in the world - he was sure that SQ - Spiritual Quotient can be acquired from India only as our cultural heritage was so rich. It is mentioned in his autobiography also.

Eg: of water should be used less so that future generations can be taken care off, Emotional Quotient was always there in Indians but it has gone down in today's fast paced world.

Westerners knew how to destroy EQ of Indians.
1) Diversification
2) Destruction
25 crores of population at the time of technology revolution - now today 61 crores is only the youth of total population but EQ has gone so low/destructed that even if sentiments are hurt then too there is no change/revolution by the youth against wrong doings in the society.
EQ nu katleaam thai gayu chhe aaj ni duniya ma. EQ has got diversified & later destructed. There are 2 types of Compassion.
1) Apparent Compassion.
2) Actual Compassion.

Eg: of a hunter who hunts pigeons 1st by giving them to eat & then covering them with net to hunt. Apparent compassion is more but no actual compassion Whereas of a doctor who gives pain 1st while treatment but actual compassion is more & no apparent compassion.

SQ c/o IQ, EQ c/o IQ.

Eg: of PETA - showing apparent compassion but no actual compassion in case of (Victorias - horsecart) running in Mumbai in Nariman Point area to be stopped.
What about families of such horsecart owners? How will they earn in future, Isn't this injustice to them? It will lead to slaughtering of animals nothing else as they will be rendered useless once this Victorias are closed.

Eg: During recession of 2008, Diamond Market was 1 of the most affected in Gujarat, at that time there were many Kathiawaadi people who became jobless. Pann mehnati bohu, temne khabar hati k Palitana ma Doli/saamaan upaad va waala loko majuri kari ne potaanu petiyu ralta hoi chhe. Ae loko be be ni pair ma ek jann ne Rs 50 mali rahe aem mehnat majuri kairi hati.

Prevention of Cruelty to Animals Act - Does not extend it to slaughter. Such an Act has indirectly promoted slaughter of Animals in India which is an Agrarian economy.

People (We) do not understand the difference of these 2 types of Compassion.

Child labour in India is abolished showing apparent compassion but no actual compassion is there due to laws & Acts. 12.5 crores of children are there in India as per data. Policies of Govt. are to be blamed for it. But is it checked at grassroot level why children have to work in India? Ans is NO.
Agar chori-chakaari kare, juvenile crime vadhe chhe aema koi ne interest nathi k aa juvaaniya su kaam aa raste chaale chhe.

Saahebji no diksha-kaal pehla no anubhav - Shikharji jaatra karva gaya hata tyaare station par ek maanas ne malya je saamaan upaadta hata. Saahebji ae puchhyu aapko thand nahi lag rahi hai..? Tyaare pela maanas ae khub saras javaab aapyo hato - k Babuji hamaare liye thandi, garmi, baarish sab ek samaan hai sirf Garibi lagti hai. Aavi daarun Garibi ma loko rahe chhe aapna Bharat ma.

Digital India is promoted but what about physical India.
Changing trends have affected human interaction. Sign boards on the highways have destroyed human touch & interaction.

Garda Ghar aaje Ghar ma j chhe. Ghar ne Ghar ma j potaana loko maate aapne samay faalavta nathi. Gharwaala saathe CHEATING ane baaharwaala saathe CHATTING.

Bindu Maharaj ae karelu varnan - Bharat ek samrudhh desh hato.

Enjoyments are restricted to age but diseases are not.
Eg: of PYS students visiting TATA Cancer hospital.

Pehla ghar ma 4 maathi 1 jann kamaato toh ghar chaaltu hatu jyaare Aaj ni monghvaari ma Ghar ma 4 jann kamaai toh ae 3 jann nu maand poshan thaai chhe.
Aav-naara varsho ma paristhithi haji kharaab thase.
Aapne bhagyashaali chhe k Jain kul ma aap kno janma thayo chhe.

PYS No. 58 - "Inner Climate" - 6th Sept'15 Sunday.

By Gurudev Panyas Shri Udayvallabh Vijayji Maharaja.

Eg of a balloon seller in America - flying different colour balloons.
A small Negro boy asks him that can a black balloon fly.
He allows him & he says "Even a black can go up".

There are many places on earth which has uncertain climate - a place where -20 -18 degree Celsius & even a place where temperature is 48-50 degree Celsius. Life is about inner climate.

Reasons - 1) Appearance.
Feeling of inferiority due to appearance.

A person has stitches on his face due to accident but he always thinks & feels inferior that how will I look & will not think that Thank God my life is saved.

Eg of a person who has less hair or is bald. When people tease for this, one should answer in a witty manner & should not feel inferior.

Eg of a fatty person.

We can remove or lessen the feeling of inferiority by using "sense of humour".

Language barrier - When a topper in a college feels inferior in front of other students of Gujarati quota who have scored 80-85%.
There too a student feels inferior just because he is from a Gujarati medium & he is not able to speak English properly.

Experience of dependency.

Eg of to be married guy who is not sure of girl to whom is going to get married.

By having a sense of humour you can face many challenges & not feel inferior.

You go/select a field according to your percentage & not according to your interest.
Eg of a 92% student.

Communication skill wise is a major factor for feeling inferior.

Financial situation wise is also a big factor for feeling inferior.
When a student feels inferior who is from a lower strata income of society & cannot give party to his friends on an occasion.

Eg of an urban citizen v/s a villager. But no one checks whether a urban citizen stays in a small flat whereas a villager might have a big bungalow in his village.
But still a villager feels inferior when compared to an urban citizen.

Superiority & inferiority is always co-related.

When there is a superiority complex then a person feels that he should be noticed.

Style-Style-Style. Trendy-Trendy-Trendy.

Eg of different styles

Superiority complex for yourself also becomes an inferiority complex for someone else.

To become centre of attraction we use our superiority.

The more awkward you look more are the chances of being centre of attraction.

"If you try to impress someone, you yourself are impressed by that person".

"You are what you are not but you want to be what you are not."

Hum jo hai woh hai par hume chahiye jo woh hum nahi hai.

Superiority & self esteem are different.
Self esteem actually comes when someone else feels that goodness in you.

We have different styles in whatever we do.

Eg of Lilladhar who makes fun of his teacher who was physically handicapped but the teacher does not scold him but rather says "Yeh kudrat ki leela hai Lilladhar, iski aise mazaak nahi udaate".

It should be a matter of pity, sympathy & not a matter of laughter in such cases.

Eg of Abdul Kalam who lived his life in simplicity.

Logo ki nazar mein rehna then be simple with high thinking.

Where there is style there cannot be life,
But where there is life there should not be style.

Inferior feeling person feels attached to someone who understands him or her.

There is nothing wrong in presentation/or being presentable but it should not be a cause for someone else feeling inferior.

Recognition - Each & every person feels that he/she should be recognised.

Everyone has some or the other uniqueness in himself/herself.

Why only "survival of the fittest" & why not "survival of weakest".

Jain Dharam is based on " survival of the weakest".

"Sab sirf apni sochte hai baaki O k baare mein koi nahi sochta."

OBC nahi EBC hona chahiye.
Economically Backward Class.

A main point by PM Modiji.
He appealed to people to let go of Gas subsidy & probably no one knows or is aware but 20 lacs families have let go of this subsidy. Yeh daan nahi balidaan hai.

Examples of PYS students who have visited JJ hospital, Nair hospital, TATA Hospital & KEam hospital.

Hamaari sanskriti sikhaati hai "survival of weakest by the help of fittest".

Eg of Thomas a small boy who visited a New York hotel but was removed & was not allowed to stay there.
He became no one else but Thomas Lipton the founder of Lipton Tea brand.

Kabhi ruaab se kabhi gareeb ko Na mat bolna woh din hamaare bhi aa sakte hai.

If you dont appreciate good talent then there won't be motivation to them.

Eg of Irla Jain Sangh & Hemantbhai parivaar who even after taking " chadhaava" did not do "Dhwajaropan" but allowed & insisted that all the volunteers who have worked day in day out should do "Dhwajaropan".

A girl asks "Chadhaavas should not be done & rather be only distributed to colleges/poor".
Saahebji replies the same should be implemented for marriages also where the same concept applies that money is wasted like water.

Very unfortunate are those who have only money but nothing else.
Whereas very fortunate are those poor people who does not have money but have everything else.

If Charity begins at home then Sacrifice should also begin at home.

Eg of 4 small boys who did Chovihaari chath saathe 7 jaatra with Samkit Group.

Motivation -
A person should be motivated / appreciated for whatever small good deed that he does.

Durguno aur buraai ko kandhe dete hai tabhi woh failti hai.
Don't give appreciation to badness & bad deeds.

Eg of a boy does not go with his friends when his mother says a No to him.

No teasing of other people & making them feel inferior.

A book of Gurucharan Das on "Difficulties of being Good".

Ek bhi aisa aadmi nahi hai jiss mein koi khaas baat nahi hai.
Bring out that special potential of that person.

Acceptance -
Thinking ability hai par presentation power nahi hai toh kya hua.

Eg of cricketer when a bowler feels inferior in front of a batsman in this batsman centric game.
Still the bowler sticks to their own role.

Points of irritation also bring in inferior complex.

Accept the fact that you cannot do something.
Noone can be strong & powerful in all things.

You should accept that you are not good in something at the same time if you are trying to do something which is new to you then You should Persevere to improve your self.

There is no shortcut to success.

"Copy kari ne pass thavaai pann hoshiyaar na thavaai".

Perseverance (hard working) is the magical key to success.

Acknowledgement -
That is acknowledging your own potential.

Paani ni vyaakaran.

You should not do what everyone else does - You should be doing what you like or where your potential lies.

"Jo hai wohi raho - keep simplicity as your ideals".
Hamaari sanskriti yahi sikhaati hai.

"Sirf dikhaave pe mat jaao apni akal lagaao."

Achha dikhna ki baare mein mat socho - achhe bann ne ki socho.

Character is what I am, what people think of me is Personality & Image is how I see myself.

Eg of Kumarpaalbhai V Shah. Such a noble person with simplicity who has not even seen his face in mirror in last 45 years.

Don't go for your photograph but go for X-ray.

Just bring a spark out from within.
Just don't dare to feel inferior.

How positive PYS has been for youngsters that we will come to know (we will value) in 2030-2035.

PYS NO-59 "Seek the Soldier in U".

By 1 & only Master Blaster Gurudev Param Pujya Panyas Pravar Udayvallabh Vijayji Maharaja.

"Maana iss jahaan ko Gulzaar kar na sa ke hum,
Par 'kaatein' (thorns) kum toh kare jahaan se bhi guzre hum...."

Today's session of PYS was very similar to the lines written above.

Maharaj Saheb showed a noble way of how should we ("the youth" "the youngsters") wake up "THE SOLDIERS" in ourselves.

"AYE YUVAAN APNE ANDAR KE JAWAAN KO JAGAA,
AYE YUVAAN TU BANN JAWAAN......!!"

He gave some inspirational historic & current life examples -

1) Ramlo Barot who with his intelligence cancelled the plan of Ajaypal Raja who had planned to destroy Taranga Tirth of Shree Ajitnath Bhagwan.

2) Son of Vanraj who committed suicide after realising that ena vichaar bagdi gaya after seeing 2 Kanya in his Mahal's compound.

3) Mohanath Goswami who showed his bravery and patriotism against those who were attacking the border.

4) Sri Lankan veteran batsman cum captain Attapattu who showed his self confidence and perseverance in Cricket.

5) Jatayu the vulture from Ramayana who even after knowing the power of the mighty Ravana attempted to fight fearlessly.

6) And last but not the least Gurudev himself Udayvallabh Vijayji Maharaja in his Chaturmaas at Bhavnagar was invited at a seminar of roughly 1200 teachers and 600 students for spreading sex education in Gujarat at the schooling age. He was restricted in saying anything against Government and then also he won hearts of all present there and made them realise that in bringing this concept there is a huge conspiracy as well as the way it would affect the kids at a tender age. His Vyakhyaan continued for around one and a half hour & he successfully counter argued all those who raised queries 👏🏻 with the thought that Time and Nature are teachers, there is no need of professors to come in between and teach sex education.

"Maharaj" acted as a Soldier. Those (normal people like us) who are facing the problem today are sleeping & those who (Maharaj Saaheb) are not going to face this problem are concerned & worried about us & our future generation.

‪#‎Media‬ exposure and moral-less education has screwd up teenager's life.

It's an absolute conspiracy to stop India becoming a superpower. They (developed nations) are unable to tolerate the progress of India which was previously ruled by them.

He even said that our ignorance & immaturity today may cost us high going forward.

"Humne kiya kuch nahi sirf dekha but arrey bhai dekhne se hi toh paap ki shuruvaat hoti hai...."

But above all Guru Maharaj bets that 10 years down the line there will be times when people will have to stand in long queues to get their Visa passed for coming to India.

IT + IT = IT
Information technology + Indian talent = India tomorrow.

Everyone has "A Soldier" within them which should wake up when the situation demands.

A true Soldier shall be someone with
- {S}elf confidence
- Be {O}pportunist
- {L}egal background
- {D}iscipline and Dedication
- {I}ntelligence
- {E}goless personality
- {R}ecognition and Reputation

His above Mantra for becoming soldiers motivated youth to become one..!!

He rightly said that -

‪#‎Try‬ to read and think between the lines.

‪#‎Ache‬ din aate nahi laane padte hai.

‪#‎Everyone‬ knows how to propose but now learn to Dispose.

‪#‎Every‬ medicine has action as well as a reaction.

‪#‎When‬ health is lost something is lost, but when Character is lost everything is lost.

‪#‎Parents‬ are purpose of our happiness and not obstacles.

He concluded the session by saying
"I should not give you what you wish/like but I will give you what you deserve in the manner you like".

PYS No. 60 at Sheth Motisha Jain Derasar, Byculla on 22nd Nov'15, Sunday.

Jainam Jayati Shaashanam.