PYS no. 75 - 12th Feb'17, Sunday....!! Topic - "BALANCING EMOTIONS".

PYS no. 75 - 12th Feb'17, Sunday....!!

"Diamond Jubilee Session".

Venue - Onyx 7, GMDC Ground, Opp BRTS Bus Stop, Near Helmet Circle, 132 Feet Road, Memnagar, Ahmedabad.

Topic - "BALANCING EMOTIONS".

Sambodhan by 

Founder of PYS....!!

Thunder of Youth....!!

Wonder of Jinshaashan....!!

UPKAARI GURUDEV PUJYA ACHARYA SHRI UDAYVALLABHSURISHWARJI MAHARAJA....!!

Bharat Desh ek lok shaahi no Desh chhe. Lok shaahi nu parva aetle chutni (elections).

Donald Trump ketla varso thi jeeve chhe pann chhella 6-8 mahina ma aemnu vyaktitva baahar aavyu.

Ghanivaar badhaane potaani line vadhaare Kari naakhe ane bija ni ochhi Kari naakhe.

(Drawing lines v/s Erasing lines).

Eg of Gyani Jel Singh, 60 years back election history.

He was criticized but he remained silent but then he said a very nice sentence.

"Lagaao si ne mein teer, lekin yaad rahe aapki bhi jagaah mere si ne mein hai - Kahi aapko hi naa lag jaaye".

The depth of my character is judged when I am criticized 

I can measure my self.

Emotion is an asset.

School ma ek chhokra ne puchhva ma aavyu 7 wonders kayaa..??

I can think,

I can feel,

I can taste, 

I can smell,

I can hear,

I can see,

I can express.

Emotional imbalance becomes our liability.

"Heart v/s other organs of our body".

Jeremy C Brook - aemne ek book laikhi chhe - "Your health your planet".

Health resembles Heart.

Planet / Earth - "EARTH" & remove H from last & put it ahead in EARTH word it becomes HEART.

 He wrote the above line.

"THE HEART OF EDUCATION IS EDUCATION OF HEART."

Eg of Man v/s Dog.

Kyaarek Maanas Audi gaadi ma aavi ne Kutra nu accident kari naakhe.

Aane Maanas kehvaai....??

Kyaarek jarur padye - sniffer tarike lai jaai chhe - tyaari laad ladaave. Kyaarek gaadi ma saathe lai jaai round maarvaa.

"LOKO AANE MAANAS KE CHHE..!!".

Soft Heart shows your identity which in turn proves us as a Human being.

Eg of J C Bose. Jagdish Chandra Bose.

He wrote about practical life of plant. How they grow.

Ghani badhi Hindu school hostel o ma bhanaava ma aavtu ne aave chhe - how to water plants, how to fertilize them,

After 3 weeks the plant grows so nicely.

It proves - it has life, it is alive.

Education of heart - Sushrushaa Day.

Do you all try some day to go & feed poor people, in hospitals.

Eg of PYS students - of visiting hospitals for distribution of fruits - they have experience of patients how they feel happy / how they express.

Ghare mummy banana aape tyaare hu na khaau - side ma feki dau.

1 student said this  experience.

"He said I now understand the value of 1 banana".

Eg of 70 girls - All blind - there is such school in Dadar, Mumbai. They dont know what are colours.

Disabled person v/s mentally challenged.

Ghani vaar koi paagal khaana ma jaai tyaare ghanaa loko aava loko ne joi ne majaak udaavta hoi aena par hasta hoi, bichaaro pelo mentally challenged person pann potaana par hase aene samjhan na padtu hoi ke aa loko aena par hase chhe.

Sushrushaa day, Paanjrapole day - aava koi diwas ujvo.

Old age home - aama toh naam vaachyu chhe - "Dikra nu ghar". 

Cultural differentiation - Friend.

Eg of Bhaibandh - behenpani in Gujarati.

Tamaara jevaa intellectual maanaso ne aavu kem nathi sujtu...??

Eg of different days - Valentine day - kona maate ujvo chho? 

Je nathi malvaanu kyaare aene maate..??

Aena karta je ne koi malyu nathi - aeva loko saathe saara diwaso aemni saathe jai ne ujvo.

Economics - Arthashaastra - earlier maanav shaastra.

Education is emotionless.

Emotions - Human touch, it all has gone down.

Quote - "Shareer vadhyu pann buddhi vadhi nahi".

Competitive approach.

1 student asked - Saahebji aaj na world ma compete nathi karta toh hamaaro progress nathi thato.

Saahebji says I will tell you 6 types of progress.

1) Physical progress

2) Mental progress

3) Material / Financial progress

4) Social progress

5) Human progress (all 

6) Spiritual progress - Important....!!

Quote - The day we are born & the day we realise why we are born.

Eg of National Health Institute of Hyderabad - 

100 metre Race of 8 girls. 

Race started 1 girl fell down - all 5 came back & wiped her nose, took her together towards finishing line.

Vichaaro - tame sane loko aavu kyaare vichaaryu chhe..??

Aa difference chhe between Collective progress v/s Individual progress...!!

Me & I......!!

ME when picturised & shown upside down it reflects WE.

A picture is as good as 100 words.

Over mechanism.

Eg of Vihaar by Shraman Shramani Bhagwanto.

Human touch nikli gayo chhe ane nikalto rahese because of over mechanism.

Eg of Ghatkopar boy & his dad.

Mobile atirek - "Pehla no quote - An apple a day keeps a doctor away.

Ha ve An apple a day keeps everyone away..!!"

Line said by Steve Jobs - I have know understood what disastrous thing I have created.

He kept his children away from this apple device - he knew his side effects.

Eg of our Inner circle which has our parents (mummy pappa), brother, sister.

Ha ve toh android aavi gayu chhe.

There is no space in immer circle - pann koi tamaara jaan vagar andar praveshi rahyu chhe this is in context of relations of boys & girls.

Over materialism.

How much do you use water, petrol, diesel, electricity...??

GREEN HOUSE EFFECT..!!

Do you know population of US..?

400 billion.

Eg of a boy & his mother about inviting a guest to his house for lunch.

Consumption ratio - 1:7.

An American on an average consumes so much of water, electricity, food, etc..

THE WORLD CANNOT AFFORD ANOTHER AMERICA..!!

24% Carbon emission.

Vichaaro aapne tyaa aavu over consumption, over materialism culture aavi rahyu chhe.

Tamne jaanvu hoi toh amaari saathe aavo Vihaar ma - Eg of small kid running for water behind a tanker with bucket.

IF YOU WANT TO HELP POOR, STUDY THE RICH..!!

Exploitation of forth coming generation..!!

Aana maate koi aandolan nathi thataa.

Eg of small kid - jambu nu jaad todi naaikhu - ek jaambu maate.

Jaad todi naaikhu, jumkhaa todi naaikhaa, daal todi naaikhi, pann koi nathi vichaartu ke niche already jaambu paida chhe.

Eg of Leshya as per Jain Scriptures.

As per capacity,

As per opportunity,

As per possibility,

As per availability,

As per necessity,

As per responsibility.

Tame SHOWER leta vichaaro chho tame 1 maanas ketlu paani waapri naakho chho..??

Eg - Nal no ane nahaavaano awaaj bhego na thavo joiye.

Eg of screen creams, moisturizers.

Modha na shades khaali screen par dekhaai chhe ane badlaata dekhaai chhe - saache mein nahi.

Tub, Pub ne Club maathi baahar aavo.

Aa 4 kaarano (education is emotionless,  overconsumption, overmechanism) thi emotional imbalance create thaai chhe.

1 common fariyaad - parivaaro paase thi amaari paase.

Khaali kaam karya kare chhe parivaar ne time nathi aapta.

Tame badha commerce line waala chho - bhale pachhi arts, science, architecture lidhu hoi.

Aakhre toh biji line lai ne pann paisa j kamaavaana chhe.

"COMMERCIALISATION".

Tame 45 ni umare gujri jaao - jyaare tame puro time aakhi Company ne aapyo hoi aene upar laavama.

Ae loko toh 3 diwas ma tamaaru replacement goti lese.

Pann ghare maa baap, wife, naano chhokro ke chhokri hoi.

Ae loko ne toh jeevan bhar tamaaru replacement nathi malvaanu.

Capitalist culture - aama thodu socialist culture umero.

Eg of Tejas Shah, A PYS student.

PYS ni Green book ma vaachva jevu chhe Students Corner - From pages 32 to 44.

Khaas vaachjo aa pages.

Su impact laave chhe aa sessions.

Work lofe balance is very very important.

"Imbalance emotions ruins the life - Balance emotions creates the life."

"Always think for other angle & Always think from other's angle.."

Terrorism ma loko mare chhe - Mirrorism ma aapne marta nathi.

Eg of Karuna Workshop - Art of feeling.

Potaana bhog na emotions chhe aeni saathe jene kaai malyu nathi aena maate pann Kaai emotions laavjo.

For soft heart - 

1) balance it.

2) think - vichaar karo - koi pann decision leta pehla.

3) sambandh ek jhaatke todtaa pehla vichaar karjo.

4) Koi ne chhodta pehla vichaar karjo.

Eg of Husband wife v/s wife & small son.

Think both ways - 

5) Utaavalma decision leta pehla vichaarjo.

Thoda depression ma gaya aetle suicide karva 

6) Koi ni laagni no sweekaar karta sikho.

Buts, cuts, guts..!!

That man/woman is old whose mind is weak.

Eg of Gurudev himself of his sansaari life when he was small.

His values & morals created by his mummy.

Egs of NFS, counterstrike.

Tamne khabar pann nathi padti ke violence na roots kevi ri te tamaara maa aavi gaya chhe.

"Silence of good people is worst than violence of bad people".

Egs of Shaashan Sparshna Shibir students quiz & debates.

Next PYS - 26th Feb'17, Sunday.

Same Venue..!!

Topic: MIND - MY POWER BANK.

Shaashan Sparshna Shibir - 18th to 25th May'17. Venue - Songadh.

PYS sessions - 2nd April'17 Sunday & 16th April'17 Sunday, Ahmedabad.

Venues will be shared ASAP.

#PYSIsAlive....!! 

Jainam Jayati Shaashanam..!! 

"Yugo Sudhi Jhal Halse BhuvanBhanu Na Ajwaala"

PYS-7 Ahmedabad Sessions Saluting Sacrifice

PYS -7 23rd October'16, Sunday
Venue - Shri Chintamani Parshwanath Jain Derasar, Ayambil Bhuvan, Ramnagar, Sabarmati, Ahmedabad.
Topic - "Saluting Sacrifice".
Founder of PYS....!!
Thunder of Youth....!!
Wonder of Jinshaashan....!!
Upkaari Gurudev Param Pujya Panyas Pravar SHRI UDAYVALLABHVIJAYJI MAHARAJA....!!

While speaking of Sacrifice, first of all you have to give Sacrifice.

 Daneshwari karta balidaneshwari khub moto hoy che.For eg- 7-8 army persons plane avya.Plane ma e loko under under training sessions in vato karta hata.ema side ma bathela ek bhai sambhayi and emni aakho bhini thai gayi. Lunch avano time thayo and army persons e lunch levani na padi.Pela bhai e puchyu k Lunch Kem nathi leta.Tyare army persons e kidhu k ame lunch nahi laiye bcoz lunch bahu costly che and army persons e kidhu k ame to tewayela che. E bhai e tarat j reception par jai e badha army persons mate Lunch Pack karavdaya and emne apavdaya.E bhai seat upar betha and ek kaka e bhai ne amuk rs apya e pachi airlines na badha passenger badha e donate karya and army ppersons ne badha rs api didha.Army persons khub bhavuk thai gaya at that time e bhai e kidhu kTame amari raksha karo and ame tmaru bahuman na kariye.You are the only fellow who write a Blank Cheque written to my nation and Amount Uptill my life ends.

Mr batra an army officer taj hotel ma rokaya.Room Attendant avyo and salute karyo and emni jode selfie lidho and dhime dhime badha selfie leva mandya.Dinner karya gaya and akho staff e grand salute api.Taj Group of Companies e free of cost badhi facilities Mr batra ne api.Taj na Ceo ne Mr batra e Mail Karyo and emne thanks kidhu and tya thi mail avyo k ame Army na officers mate ame high Concessional rate par rakishu please badha army na officers taj hotel ma rakajo.Top Security fakt army ma j che baki koi field ma nathi.Army no jawan lapsi gayo toilet ma and brain hamrage thayu and e expire thai gayo. Defence e rs na padi bcoz at that time e duty par nahto.Supreme Court na justice e e army person ne paisa apdava bcoz emne kahyu ke army persons ungh ma pan shwas le to e desh mate leta hoy che.

Talent, virtues,brain power,ideology e badha ne appreciation male Che.Gandhji ni philosophy mate Gandhian University chale che ema at present 90% public out of india ni che.Gandhiji e emni life ne sacrifice kari che.

Sacrifice overrules Donation. For-eg Meghkumar example.

Patient Ventilator upar hato ne achanak power off thai gayo. E Vakte Docter e 15 minute potana hath vade e patient ne Pumping karine Jevidayo.This is Sacrifice.

1 Rs ma Patient ne Check kare che Ghatpokar ma ek Docter . This is Sacrifice.

Professor Tribhuvandas Gajjar e iodine chroline nu combination karine ne plague mate dava banavi and totally free oc cost ma all over india api.Top Pharma Companies emni jode avi and kidhu k patent amne api do and emne na padi didhi.I treat God Cures.Emne Crores ma rupees leave karine loko ni seva kari.Sacrifice ne duniya bhuli jay che.

Consititution Comittee independence vakte baneli.Ema Rajendraprasad par loko e ashepo mukya. Emne resignation apvanu nakki karyu and Gandhiji jode gaya. Gandhiji e kidhu k mari team ma ram,laxman, hanuman etc badha che and ek Shankar pan joiye che je poison pi le and badhu pachavi de and Rajendraprasad Babu e mann rakyu.Sentiment ne hurt thayo hoy and e sentiments ne najar andaj kare this was Sacrifice.

Singer Mukesh studio ma recording karta hata tyare ek message avyo ke emno ek fan icu ma che and eni jode have thoodak j kalako che Mukesh e recording bandh karyu and e fan ne icu ma malya gayo and ene 2-3 songs pan sambhavya.Arist pan Sacrfice apta hata.

Chopati par 2 chokra geet gata and Rs leta.Ek Person avyo and ene kidhu ke chalo hu pan gayu and ene songs gaya. Aa person Sehgal Saheb hata. Sacrifice at times is Sacrifice.

Chinu Modi and Rajeev Shukla wellknown writers.Chinu Modi e Rajeev Shukla ne emni lifetime ni savings api ne operation karavdayu.Jyare Rajeev Shukla e puchyu k tame atla rs kyathi lavya tyare emne kidhu k Mari mummy e kidhu k savings karje and me savings karine shares ma invest karela and mummye epan kidhelu k katokati na samay e kam lagse pan kona katokati samay e nahtu kidhu. Chinu Modi e kidhu k I have receive highest dividend today after helping you. This was sacrifice.

Every field ma sacrifice api sako. For Eg Sacrifice of Chadavo in Mumbai Virla.Kantilal nanalal e Emne emna Karyakarta o ne dhaja chadava mokalya.Emne emna Karyakarta ne appreciate karyo.Jeevan ma appreciate karta shiko.

For eg- Kohli ni sathe Bhuvaneshwar rame and 40 runs baki che and run hato nahi ne kohli run lidho at that time bhuvaneshwar e wicket sacrifice kari,e pachi umesh yadav avyo and India Win. At that time, Kohli will be the man of the Match but koi bhuvaneshwar kumar ne yaad nahi kare ke ene eni wicket sacrifice kari etle India wins.Sacrifice is one type of Performance.

For eg-3 bhaio ne papa emno part apvanu nakki karyu ema nana chokra e kidhu ke badhu hu decide karis.Badha agree thaya and ene agewise part apya .Mota bhai 38 years na hata to emne 38%, Middle bhai 34 years na hata to emne 34% and e 28 years no hato to ene 28%.Ene kidhu ke me mota bhai and middle bhai na sacrifice joy ache and hu etle 33% na lai saku. This is saluting Sacrifice.

Rupiya na Sambandh ni same Lagni na sambandh jata rahe che.Sacrifice karvani anand kaik alag j hoy che.For example Sayan ma ek bhai e Godiya Parnu lidhu and emne e Godiya Parnu C u Shah Hostel ma 39 Athai hati ema mokalyu.Tya na Chokra e radine emne gift apva gaya but emne na padi. This was Sacrifice.Thinking out of the box vicharo.

For eg-Sacrifice of Sun.

Papa Mummy Sacrifice na role Model che. Mummy papa ni Personal Life j nathi.Mummy Papa na koi personal achievements jevu kai nathi.

For eg Mumbai no Rushab Palitana ma chhat karine sath jatra karva eni mummy jode gayelo.First day Rushab ni tabiyat nathi sari and ene 5 jatra kari and eni mummy e 5 jatra kari.Badha Karyakarta e na padi k have second day rushab ne jatra na karavo to pan enii mummy e kidhu k na ene jatra karavani che. Second day eni mummy e ene 7jatra karai and eni mummy e divase Parnu kari didhu bcoz eni mummy ni tabiyat sari nahti and ene rushab ne jatra karavi hati.Jyare Rushabh n khabar padi tyare e khub radio and Mummy ne Puchyu k Mummy te parnu kem karyu? Tyare eni mummy nu statement hatu “Rushabh tari Sath jatra Rushabh na name and mari Sath Jatra pan Rushabh na name”. This is saluting Sacrifice.Nothing like personal achievements.

For eg Urvilbhai’s Father always tell that I am Urvil’s Father and emne kyare evi olkhan nathi api k Urvil maro Dikro che.

Mummy Papa na jeevan ma nothing like personal Luxuries.

Mummy papa na jeevan nothing like Personal Pleasures.

Mummy papa na jeevan ma nothing like Personal Necessities.

Mummy papa na jeevan ma nothing like Personal Priorities.

Mummy papa na jeevan ma nothing like Personal Negligence.Mobile rakho but charger and sim card tmara mummy papa che.Emna Vagar jeevan j nathi.

Mummy papa na jeevan ma nothing like Personal Humilation.Mummy e mummy tarike olkhie.Bija koi ni Mummy jode compare n karai.

Mummy Papa Sacrifice ni Murthy che.

7 Wide Angle view to see Mummy Papa Achievements.

1)When you fall,they stand as a wall-ek chokro bhada par cycle lai ne avyo and cycling karto daily. Ek divas eno accident thayo and ena papa ne phone karyo and ena papa 8 minute ma dispensary ma pohchya. Jevu ena papa e sambhayu emne sankalp karyo k Mara chokra ne saru thai jai to hu atthai karis.Next day thi paryushan chalu thata hata.Papa ne paryushan ma Lilotry khava joyie and jevu emne khabar padi k chokra ne saru che emne emna chokra mate atthai kari. This is saluting Sacrifice. E koi nai pan e chokro khud Udayvallabhvijayji maharaj saheb and Father Meghvallabhvijayji maharaj saheb che.

Sabarmati no j ek yuvan no chehro bali gayelo and ena father e skin donate kareli. This saluting Sacrifice.

2) When you fail, She gives you bail-Papa Mummy no Jordar Support Malto hoy che.

3) When you fear, She is always near-Mummy Jhansi ni rani bani ne tmara support ma j hoy.

4) When you Frustrate, She Illustrates/ Demonstrates- Mummy tamne Motivational Illustrations apine motivate kare che.

5) When you fight, She takes it very Light

6) When you fake, She says it was a Mistake

7) When you fool, She is always calm and cool.

Sacrifice ni bahu moti duniya che.Alpeshbhai Tapovan Example.

Je field ma cho ema Sacrifice Karo.

Acharya Padvi on 1st December,2016.
Next Last PYS in Ahmedabad – 20 November'16, Sunday.
Acharya Padvi on 1st December,2016.
Same Venue..!!
#PYSIsAlive....!!
Jainam Jayati Shaashanam..!!
"Yugo Sudhi Jhal Halse BhuvanBhanu Na Ajwaala"

PYS No. 56 - "Art of Feeling". Gowalia Tank.

Feeling aetle sanvedna. Feel karo toh laagse nahi karo toh nahi laage.

A man is an address of #sentiments. There are various sentiments - religious, social, socio-religious, cultural, self-oriented sentiments, etc..

We give more importance to self-oriented sentiments, that my personal sentiments should always be taken care off - it should never be hurt.

There are many social sentiments as Maitri, #Karuna, Pramod Bhavna.

Badha pratye Maitri bhaavna raakhvi (feeling of brotherhood), badha pratye karuna bhaavna raakhvi (feeling of motherhood) - Eg of how a Mother takes care, tame adosh-padosh na loko saathe kevo vyavahaar karo chho (feeling of otherness).

Feelings of religious sentiments, Eg: of Rohit Shah of Mid-day who has been continuously writing negative articles on Jain Saints hurting religious sentiments of Jains time & again.

Bharat desh ni visheshta ae hati k ahiya na loko IQ, EQ, SQ maate jaanita hataa.

Eg: of Aryabhatta inventing 'Zero' known for his intelligence quotient which is known to the entire world.

Eg: of Steve Jobs - when he started searching for spiritualism in the world - he was sure that SQ - Spiritual Quotient can be acquired from India only as our cultural heritage was so rich. It is mentioned in his autobiography also.

Eg: of water should be used less so that future generations can be taken care off, Emotional Quotient was always there in Indians but it has gone down in today's fast paced world.

Westerners knew how to destroy EQ of Indians.
1) Diversification
2) Destruction
25 crores of population at the time of technology revolution - now today 61 crores is only the youth of total population but EQ has gone so low/destructed that even if sentiments are hurt then too there is no change/revolution by the youth against wrong doings in the society.
EQ nu katleaam thai gayu chhe aaj ni duniya ma. EQ has got diversified & later destructed. There are 2 types of Compassion.
1) Apparent Compassion.
2) Actual Compassion.

Eg: of a hunter who hunts pigeons 1st by giving them to eat & then covering them with net to hunt. Apparent compassion is more but no actual compassion Whereas of a doctor who gives pain 1st while treatment but actual compassion is more & no apparent compassion.

SQ c/o IQ, EQ c/o IQ.

Eg: of PETA - showing apparent compassion but no actual compassion in case of (Victorias - horsecart) running in Mumbai in Nariman Point area to be stopped.
What about families of such horsecart owners? How will they earn in future, Isn't this injustice to them? It will lead to slaughtering of animals nothing else as they will be rendered useless once this Victorias are closed.

Eg: During recession of 2008, Diamond Market was 1 of the most affected in Gujarat, at that time there were many Kathiawaadi people who became jobless. Pann mehnati bohu, temne khabar hati k Palitana ma Doli/saamaan upaad va waala loko majuri kari ne potaanu petiyu ralta hoi chhe. Ae loko be be ni pair ma ek jann ne Rs 50 mali rahe aem mehnat majuri kairi hati.

Prevention of Cruelty to Animals Act - Does not extend it to slaughter. Such an Act has indirectly promoted slaughter of Animals in India which is an Agrarian economy.

People (We) do not understand the difference of these 2 types of Compassion.

Child labour in India is abolished showing apparent compassion but no actual compassion is there due to laws & Acts. 12.5 crores of children are there in India as per data. Policies of Govt. are to be blamed for it. But is it checked at grassroot level why children have to work in India? Ans is NO.
Agar chori-chakaari kare, juvenile crime vadhe chhe aema koi ne interest nathi k aa juvaaniya su kaam aa raste chaale chhe.

Saahebji no diksha-kaal pehla no anubhav - Shikharji jaatra karva gaya hata tyaare station par ek maanas ne malya je saamaan upaadta hata. Saahebji ae puchhyu aapko thand nahi lag rahi hai..? Tyaare pela maanas ae khub saras javaab aapyo hato - k Babuji hamaare liye thandi, garmi, baarish sab ek samaan hai sirf Garibi lagti hai. Aavi daarun Garibi ma loko rahe chhe aapna Bharat ma.

Digital India is promoted but what about physical India.
Changing trends have affected human interaction. Sign boards on the highways have destroyed human touch & interaction.

Garda Ghar aaje Ghar ma j chhe. Ghar ne Ghar ma j potaana loko maate aapne samay faalavta nathi. Gharwaala saathe CHEATING ane baaharwaala saathe CHATTING.

Bindu Maharaj ae karelu varnan - Bharat ek samrudhh desh hato.

Enjoyments are restricted to age but diseases are not.
Eg: of PYS students visiting TATA Cancer hospital.

Pehla ghar ma 4 maathi 1 jann kamaato toh ghar chaaltu hatu jyaare Aaj ni monghvaari ma Ghar ma 4 jann kamaai toh ae 3 jann nu maand poshan thaai chhe.
Aav-naara varsho ma paristhithi haji kharaab thase.
Aapne bhagyashaali chhe k Jain kul ma aap kno janma thayo chhe.

PYS No. 58 - "Inner Climate" - 6th Sept'15 Sunday.

By Gurudev Panyas Shri Udayvallabh Vijayji Maharaja.

Eg of a balloon seller in America - flying different colour balloons.
A small Negro boy asks him that can a black balloon fly.
He allows him & he says "Even a black can go up".

There are many places on earth which has uncertain climate - a place where -20 -18 degree Celsius & even a place where temperature is 48-50 degree Celsius. Life is about inner climate.

Reasons - 1) Appearance.
Feeling of inferiority due to appearance.

A person has stitches on his face due to accident but he always thinks & feels inferior that how will I look & will not think that Thank God my life is saved.

Eg of a person who has less hair or is bald. When people tease for this, one should answer in a witty manner & should not feel inferior.

Eg of a fatty person.

We can remove or lessen the feeling of inferiority by using "sense of humour".

Language barrier - When a topper in a college feels inferior in front of other students of Gujarati quota who have scored 80-85%.
There too a student feels inferior just because he is from a Gujarati medium & he is not able to speak English properly.

Experience of dependency.

Eg of to be married guy who is not sure of girl to whom is going to get married.

By having a sense of humour you can face many challenges & not feel inferior.

You go/select a field according to your percentage & not according to your interest.
Eg of a 92% student.

Communication skill wise is a major factor for feeling inferior.

Financial situation wise is also a big factor for feeling inferior.
When a student feels inferior who is from a lower strata income of society & cannot give party to his friends on an occasion.

Eg of an urban citizen v/s a villager. But no one checks whether a urban citizen stays in a small flat whereas a villager might have a big bungalow in his village.
But still a villager feels inferior when compared to an urban citizen.

Superiority & inferiority is always co-related.

When there is a superiority complex then a person feels that he should be noticed.

Style-Style-Style. Trendy-Trendy-Trendy.

Eg of different styles

Superiority complex for yourself also becomes an inferiority complex for someone else.

To become centre of attraction we use our superiority.

The more awkward you look more are the chances of being centre of attraction.

"If you try to impress someone, you yourself are impressed by that person".

"You are what you are not but you want to be what you are not."

Hum jo hai woh hai par hume chahiye jo woh hum nahi hai.

Superiority & self esteem are different.
Self esteem actually comes when someone else feels that goodness in you.

We have different styles in whatever we do.

Eg of Lilladhar who makes fun of his teacher who was physically handicapped but the teacher does not scold him but rather says "Yeh kudrat ki leela hai Lilladhar, iski aise mazaak nahi udaate".

It should be a matter of pity, sympathy & not a matter of laughter in such cases.

Eg of Abdul Kalam who lived his life in simplicity.

Logo ki nazar mein rehna then be simple with high thinking.

Where there is style there cannot be life,
But where there is life there should not be style.

Inferior feeling person feels attached to someone who understands him or her.

There is nothing wrong in presentation/or being presentable but it should not be a cause for someone else feeling inferior.

Recognition - Each & every person feels that he/she should be recognised.

Everyone has some or the other uniqueness in himself/herself.

Why only "survival of the fittest" & why not "survival of weakest".

Jain Dharam is based on " survival of the weakest".

"Sab sirf apni sochte hai baaki O k baare mein koi nahi sochta."

OBC nahi EBC hona chahiye.
Economically Backward Class.

A main point by PM Modiji.
He appealed to people to let go of Gas subsidy & probably no one knows or is aware but 20 lacs families have let go of this subsidy. Yeh daan nahi balidaan hai.

Examples of PYS students who have visited JJ hospital, Nair hospital, TATA Hospital & KEam hospital.

Hamaari sanskriti sikhaati hai "survival of weakest by the help of fittest".

Eg of Thomas a small boy who visited a New York hotel but was removed & was not allowed to stay there.
He became no one else but Thomas Lipton the founder of Lipton Tea brand.

Kabhi ruaab se kabhi gareeb ko Na mat bolna woh din hamaare bhi aa sakte hai.

If you dont appreciate good talent then there won't be motivation to them.

Eg of Irla Jain Sangh & Hemantbhai parivaar who even after taking " chadhaava" did not do "Dhwajaropan" but allowed & insisted that all the volunteers who have worked day in day out should do "Dhwajaropan".

A girl asks "Chadhaavas should not be done & rather be only distributed to colleges/poor".
Saahebji replies the same should be implemented for marriages also where the same concept applies that money is wasted like water.

Very unfortunate are those who have only money but nothing else.
Whereas very fortunate are those poor people who does not have money but have everything else.

If Charity begins at home then Sacrifice should also begin at home.

Eg of 4 small boys who did Chovihaari chath saathe 7 jaatra with Samkit Group.

Motivation -
A person should be motivated / appreciated for whatever small good deed that he does.

Durguno aur buraai ko kandhe dete hai tabhi woh failti hai.
Don't give appreciation to badness & bad deeds.

Eg of a boy does not go with his friends when his mother says a No to him.

No teasing of other people & making them feel inferior.

A book of Gurucharan Das on "Difficulties of being Good".

Ek bhi aisa aadmi nahi hai jiss mein koi khaas baat nahi hai.
Bring out that special potential of that person.

Acceptance -
Thinking ability hai par presentation power nahi hai toh kya hua.

Eg of cricketer when a bowler feels inferior in front of a batsman in this batsman centric game.
Still the bowler sticks to their own role.

Points of irritation also bring in inferior complex.

Accept the fact that you cannot do something.
Noone can be strong & powerful in all things.

You should accept that you are not good in something at the same time if you are trying to do something which is new to you then You should Persevere to improve your self.

There is no shortcut to success.

"Copy kari ne pass thavaai pann hoshiyaar na thavaai".

Perseverance (hard working) is the magical key to success.

Acknowledgement -
That is acknowledging your own potential.

Paani ni vyaakaran.

You should not do what everyone else does - You should be doing what you like or where your potential lies.

"Jo hai wohi raho - keep simplicity as your ideals".
Hamaari sanskriti yahi sikhaati hai.

"Sirf dikhaave pe mat jaao apni akal lagaao."

Achha dikhna ki baare mein mat socho - achhe bann ne ki socho.

Character is what I am, what people think of me is Personality & Image is how I see myself.

Eg of Kumarpaalbhai V Shah. Such a noble person with simplicity who has not even seen his face in mirror in last 45 years.

Don't go for your photograph but go for X-ray.

Just bring a spark out from within.
Just don't dare to feel inferior.

How positive PYS has been for youngsters that we will come to know (we will value) in 2030-2035.