PYS No. 58 - "Inner Climate" - 6th Sept'15 Sunday.

By Gurudev Panyas Shri Udayvallabh Vijayji Maharaja.

Eg of a balloon seller in America - flying different colour balloons.
A small Negro boy asks him that can a black balloon fly.
He allows him & he says "Even a black can go up".

There are many places on earth which has uncertain climate - a place where -20 -18 degree Celsius & even a place where temperature is 48-50 degree Celsius. Life is about inner climate.

Reasons - 1) Appearance.
Feeling of inferiority due to appearance.

A person has stitches on his face due to accident but he always thinks & feels inferior that how will I look & will not think that Thank God my life is saved.

Eg of a person who has less hair or is bald. When people tease for this, one should answer in a witty manner & should not feel inferior.

Eg of a fatty person.

We can remove or lessen the feeling of inferiority by using "sense of humour".

Language barrier - When a topper in a college feels inferior in front of other students of Gujarati quota who have scored 80-85%.
There too a student feels inferior just because he is from a Gujarati medium & he is not able to speak English properly.

Experience of dependency.

Eg of to be married guy who is not sure of girl to whom is going to get married.

By having a sense of humour you can face many challenges & not feel inferior.

You go/select a field according to your percentage & not according to your interest.
Eg of a 92% student.

Communication skill wise is a major factor for feeling inferior.

Financial situation wise is also a big factor for feeling inferior.
When a student feels inferior who is from a lower strata income of society & cannot give party to his friends on an occasion.

Eg of an urban citizen v/s a villager. But no one checks whether a urban citizen stays in a small flat whereas a villager might have a big bungalow in his village.
But still a villager feels inferior when compared to an urban citizen.

Superiority & inferiority is always co-related.

When there is a superiority complex then a person feels that he should be noticed.

Style-Style-Style. Trendy-Trendy-Trendy.

Eg of different styles

Superiority complex for yourself also becomes an inferiority complex for someone else.

To become centre of attraction we use our superiority.

The more awkward you look more are the chances of being centre of attraction.

"If you try to impress someone, you yourself are impressed by that person".

"You are what you are not but you want to be what you are not."

Hum jo hai woh hai par hume chahiye jo woh hum nahi hai.

Superiority & self esteem are different.
Self esteem actually comes when someone else feels that goodness in you.

We have different styles in whatever we do.

Eg of Lilladhar who makes fun of his teacher who was physically handicapped but the teacher does not scold him but rather says "Yeh kudrat ki leela hai Lilladhar, iski aise mazaak nahi udaate".

It should be a matter of pity, sympathy & not a matter of laughter in such cases.

Eg of Abdul Kalam who lived his life in simplicity.

Logo ki nazar mein rehna then be simple with high thinking.

Where there is style there cannot be life,
But where there is life there should not be style.

Inferior feeling person feels attached to someone who understands him or her.

There is nothing wrong in presentation/or being presentable but it should not be a cause for someone else feeling inferior.

Recognition - Each & every person feels that he/she should be recognised.

Everyone has some or the other uniqueness in himself/herself.

Why only "survival of the fittest" & why not "survival of weakest".

Jain Dharam is based on " survival of the weakest".

"Sab sirf apni sochte hai baaki O k baare mein koi nahi sochta."

OBC nahi EBC hona chahiye.
Economically Backward Class.

A main point by PM Modiji.
He appealed to people to let go of Gas subsidy & probably no one knows or is aware but 20 lacs families have let go of this subsidy. Yeh daan nahi balidaan hai.

Examples of PYS students who have visited JJ hospital, Nair hospital, TATA Hospital & KEam hospital.

Hamaari sanskriti sikhaati hai "survival of weakest by the help of fittest".

Eg of Thomas a small boy who visited a New York hotel but was removed & was not allowed to stay there.
He became no one else but Thomas Lipton the founder of Lipton Tea brand.

Kabhi ruaab se kabhi gareeb ko Na mat bolna woh din hamaare bhi aa sakte hai.

If you dont appreciate good talent then there won't be motivation to them.

Eg of Irla Jain Sangh & Hemantbhai parivaar who even after taking " chadhaava" did not do "Dhwajaropan" but allowed & insisted that all the volunteers who have worked day in day out should do "Dhwajaropan".

A girl asks "Chadhaavas should not be done & rather be only distributed to colleges/poor".
Saahebji replies the same should be implemented for marriages also where the same concept applies that money is wasted like water.

Very unfortunate are those who have only money but nothing else.
Whereas very fortunate are those poor people who does not have money but have everything else.

If Charity begins at home then Sacrifice should also begin at home.

Eg of 4 small boys who did Chovihaari chath saathe 7 jaatra with Samkit Group.

Motivation -
A person should be motivated / appreciated for whatever small good deed that he does.

Durguno aur buraai ko kandhe dete hai tabhi woh failti hai.
Don't give appreciation to badness & bad deeds.

Eg of a boy does not go with his friends when his mother says a No to him.

No teasing of other people & making them feel inferior.

A book of Gurucharan Das on "Difficulties of being Good".

Ek bhi aisa aadmi nahi hai jiss mein koi khaas baat nahi hai.
Bring out that special potential of that person.

Acceptance -
Thinking ability hai par presentation power nahi hai toh kya hua.

Eg of cricketer when a bowler feels inferior in front of a batsman in this batsman centric game.
Still the bowler sticks to their own role.

Points of irritation also bring in inferior complex.

Accept the fact that you cannot do something.
Noone can be strong & powerful in all things.

You should accept that you are not good in something at the same time if you are trying to do something which is new to you then You should Persevere to improve your self.

There is no shortcut to success.

"Copy kari ne pass thavaai pann hoshiyaar na thavaai".

Perseverance (hard working) is the magical key to success.

Acknowledgement -
That is acknowledging your own potential.

Paani ni vyaakaran.

You should not do what everyone else does - You should be doing what you like or where your potential lies.

"Jo hai wohi raho - keep simplicity as your ideals".
Hamaari sanskriti yahi sikhaati hai.

"Sirf dikhaave pe mat jaao apni akal lagaao."

Achha dikhna ki baare mein mat socho - achhe bann ne ki socho.

Character is what I am, what people think of me is Personality & Image is how I see myself.

Eg of Kumarpaalbhai V Shah. Such a noble person with simplicity who has not even seen his face in mirror in last 45 years.

Don't go for your photograph but go for X-ray.

Just bring a spark out from within.
Just don't dare to feel inferior.

How positive PYS has been for youngsters that we will come to know (we will value) in 2030-2035.