PYS No. 63....!!Learn to Lead

17th July'16, Sunday.
Venue - Shri Chintamani Parshwanath Jain Derasar, Ayambil Bhuvan, Ramnagar, Sabarmati, Ahmedabad.

Topic - "LEARN TO LEAD".

Sambodhan by 1 & only:
Founder of PYS....!!
Thunder of Youngistan....!!
Wonder of Jinshaashan....!!
Master Blaster Upkaari Gurudev Param Pujya Panyas Pravar SHRI UDAYVALLABHVIJAYJI MAHARAJA....!! 

PYS nu start hamesha alag ri te thaai chhe.
Kyaarek koi example thi thai chhe, sensitive example thi thai chhe.

Ek PYS ni dikri ae lakhelo kaagal ame Mumbai thi Ahmedabad Vihaar kari ne aavya tyaare dhyaan thi vaachyo.

Aena pappa ni tabiyat kharaab thai gayi hati, ghanaa kapraa diwaso kaadhyo chhe. Toh pann pappa kyaare naasi paas thayaa nathi.

Business na kaam bohu taklif thai hati, chemotherapy karaavya pachhi pappa bus ma ghare paachaa jaai. Ae time ae taxi pann nathi parvadti.

Mummy expire thai gaya pachhi pappa aavta school ma.

3 sisters maa ni sauthi naani behen ae 2015 pachhi no lakhelo kaagal, main letter pachhi na bijaa 6 pages.

School na award function ma chhokri ae javaanu ae teacher ne ke maara mummy nathi. Pappa ae kidhu taare school ma kevaanu nahi ke taara mummy nathi.
Kahi devaanu mummy aavse kaale.

Mummy na gaya pachhi pappa ae 1 kalaak vehlaa uthi ne badhu mummy nu kaam sambhaali lidhu.

16-18 varas ni umar ae college javaanu thayu tyaare pappa chhokri ne besaadi ne samjaavyu.

Ek bday no prasang - pappa ae mane choviyaar karta ane chopsticks thi pann khaata sikhvaadyu chhe.

We r blessed to have such a father in our life that he has sacrificed his entire life for all 3 of us.

Pappa badhu saathe samjaave amne - sports, economics, political news par dhyaan aape.

He has never scolded us, haath upaadvaani vaat aj durr chhe.

Maybe 12-14 varas in umar ae thodu gusse thai gaya pann 10mins ma aavi ne room ma SORRY kahi ne gaya.

Kyaare koi kaam nathi karya ghar na ame 3 ae pann amne toh raani ni jem raakhya chhe.

1) aadarsh leader kevaa hoi.
Father, mother, friend, mentor, crystal.

He has a never say die spirit.
He has a spirit of a father, heart of a mother, mind like a friend, brain like a mentor, shine like a crystal.

Just imagine the situation in 1998,
Ghar ne upar laavaanu.

He refers books - shares all the knowledge, dawaa lidhi ke nahi. Ae pann office na busy schedule maathi 12.05 ae time kaadhi ne.

Eg of Edison - he failed in laboratory. Aakhi aag laagi gayi.
He was told - aag laagi ne badhu bali gayu, u have destroyed.
He said - I have failed but will start fresh again.
As maari nishfalta pann nikli gayi aama. There's no proof of my failure.
Ha ve hu jaldi success melvis.

"Success is a road which is always under construction."

Success comes due to perfection, perfection comes due to practice.
Practice is due to failure, hence it is proved that "SUCCESS IS DUE TO FAILURE".

Pachhi frustrate nahi thavaanu, naasi pass nahi thavaanu.
Kyaare thaakvaanu nahi.

Ek kisso vaachyo.
Eg of 1 - Mrs. Sheila Ghosh at the age of 83. At the young age of 83....!!

Frymes banaave, roj na 280kms nu travelling kare Kolkata sudhi aa umar ae jaai, majuri kare ane mahina na 8-10000 kamaai ane Ghar chalaave.

"That man is old whose mind is weak."
"Jenu magaj nablu chhe ae gardo chhe."

Karunashankar naam na maastar - Gambhira gaam, Sabarmati thi najeek.

Bhavaaio ni group aaveli - naatak company khub ashleel bhaasha vaapri ne naatak chalaave.
Mastar ne thayu naana baalako jova jaai chhe, aa na chaale.
Aemne aemna 1.5 (dodh) mahina no pagaar aapi didho. Naana chhokra-chhokri oni sambhaal kairi.

Mind like a friend - kharaab aadat maathi baahar kaadhaave.
Aapan ne khabar chhe aapni ane aapna friends ni haalat.

Eg of England cricket team - latest 2016 T20 World Cup.

Tamne badhaane khabar chhe su thayu final ma.

Eg of Eoin Morgan - captain.( best example)
Naani saras speech aaipi hati, it is not publicised much.

1st target - hu maafi maangu chhu aakhaa tamaara deshvaasi oni.

Atyaar na situation joi lo - amaari par su vityu chhe ae tame deshvaasio jaano chho.
Ame 11 pann rami ne haarya chhe. Amaari situation samji ne ek emotional appeal kairi.
Please don't react.

2nd target - Press.
Last 4 ball nu vadhaare analysis nahi karta.
Tame please nahi lakhtaa - it is a part of game & life - kyaarek success - kyaarek failure.

3rd target - directly to Ben Stokes.
Tu please hass - ane hasaavi ne j karyo.
He was told we have won a lot - and credit was given to all 11.
At the time of failure - it should be distributed between 11 of us WHY you alone..??

He showed superb ability of being a leader.
Be a mentor, use your brain like a mentor.

Psychology aakhi badli naaikhi badhaani.

Tamaaro chhokro kyaare aagal fail thaai - u have not failed, u have got 1 more chance to prove your failure.

Inspirational leader, thought leader, motivational leader & transformational leader.

Autocratic leadership - he does all alone with his own rule.

Situational leadership - cricketer a captain comes on crease - he understands as per the situation - 84/6 chhe pann bhaai 184/6 thaai tyaa sudhi takvaanu chhe.
Six ni demand par dhyaan na apaai.

1) Power of stability.

Aaj na yuvaano ek taklif - paani jaldi chadhi jaai ane paani jaldi utri pann jaai.

First learn then lead. When u have opportunity to learn please learn & then u will get a chance to lead.

2) Art of Maturity.
Maturity vagar leadership aavti nathi.

Eg of Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel, Mahatma Gandhi, Jawahar Lal Nehru.

Acharya Kripalani was told by Gandhiji to have a name of Jawahar Lal Nehru.
List ma Jawahar Lal Nehru nu naam hatuj nahi.

Recommendation aapyu Gandhiji ae Jawahar Lal Nehru maate.

12 janaa tamaari tarfen ma hataa - Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel ne.
He was smart & shrewd.

Neta bole chhe kutra o ne joi ne - tame kutraao ladho chho ek haadkaa na tukdaa maate.
Tyaare kutro jawaab aape chhe - tame neta o ladho chho ek jaad na tukdaa maate (satta ni khursi).

Eg of Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel & his brother Vitthal Patel (V Z Patel) for Barrister degree.
Letter had come for him from University for Barrister degree but since his brother Vitthal Patel had opened it & he too wanted to become a Barrister - Sardar aemni bhaavna samjhi gaya ane kidhu bhai tame pehla lai lo degree.

During partition - sanyukt Bhaarat ane Pakistan na 375 crores hataa.
55 crores aapvaana ane 320 crores raakhvaana.

Baapu bohu udaardil hataa.
Pann army na chief ae sidhu kidhu Shastro kyaa chhe.

Conditional tharaav pass kariye. Shastro Pakistan aape tyaare j paisa aapvaana.

"Ladhvu hoi toh prem karvu nahi ane Prem hoi toh ladhvu nahi".

Baapu ae upwaas nu shastra upaadyu.
Media conference thai - Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel ne puchhvaa maate - tame statement kem badlyu - tyaare aemne kidhu desh maate Baapu vadhaare important chhe maara vachan nahi.

Bhaai maate balidaan, Baapu maate balidaan.

3) Effective Authority.

Achhe din aayengey kai ne Modiji nu naam chhe - pann ek diwas tyaa jai ne ubha raho ane jowo.

30th Jan'1948 - Birla House - Death of Gandhiji.
Nathuraam Ghodse ae saanj ni Aarti darmyaan 3 goli maari didhi.

Sardar's words - Baapu ni hatya thai chhe ane maarnaaro ek Hindu j chhe.
Ek vaakya aapyu ane aemne ketlaa badha nirdosh maanso (Muslims) ne marta bachaavya.

Desh ne je bachaavyu chhe - aetle toh aemna putlaa bane chhe - "Statue of Unity".

Su Maanas hataa ae, Iron Man pann naam naanu chhe aemna maate.

Eg of when his wife was dying. He had to fight a case for his client.
He fought that but at the same time his wife died.
But what sacrifice by him.

What a superb individual, what an art of maturity. Bhaarat nu naam ane Garima su bachaaivi chhe aemne.

"Face the challenge, win the challenge."

Eg of people doing away with Gas subsidy on request of Modiji.
1 crore families happily gave it away.

This is called Effective Leadership.

Eg of Lal Bahadur Shastriji - PM of India.
When there was scarcity of food grains - he had said aapna deshvaasi o upwaas kari ne sambhaal kari sa ke chhe.
But I will not beg in front of the world.
Somvaare upwaas karo.
This was effective authority.

Eg of a girl who was a prostitute, Gandhiji had called her a beti.
She wanted to donate for independence cause & gave away her 4 bangles which were of his naani, not even of her own nor even her mothers.

4) Sense of responsibility.

Eg of Dr. Kalaam & Dr. Satish Dhawan.

Agni missile launch was failed - Dr. Satish Dhawan took d responsibility being the boss.

Later when it was a success - mikes were towards Dr. Satish Dhawan for comments - he went aside & asked Kalaam to comment on success.

Sikhvaa jevu ��
Kalaam saaheb's statement - "Bear your failure, share your success."

"Saaru thaai toh claim, failure thaai toh blame".

"There r many faces behind your success but mind well you are only responsibility for your failure".

Eg of Kalam & how he took care of his subordinate's family responsibility of taking out for a day.

Eg of boys v/s fathers,
Girls v/s mothers.

Chhokrao tame kem pappa ne help na kari sako, responsible bano.

Chhokrio tame kem mummy ne help na kari sako Ghar na kaam ma, aeni friend aave, tamaari friend aave, aemna saasu ni friend aave badha ma ae kaam kare ae kya no niyam chhe.
"Jaldi tamaara badha no vaaro aavse jyaare tame MAA-BAAP ni bhumika ma haso..!!"

Gurudev knows 1 family -
Eg of 2 brothers - studying in 10th & 12th - they go for putting newspapers in other houses in early morning.

They understand the responsibility of father how he earns when many @ home are ill & expenses are at top, they helped.

"Where to share & where not to share" - that too is an act of maturity & responsibility.

Eg of Historic Hathisingh nu 52 Jinalaya waalu Derasar.
Harkorben sethaani - she was a tough lady who knew how deal with all.

Derasar nu kaam karta ek maanas ae chori karvaani try kairi.
Bija diwase Harkorben ae line ubha hataa ae samji gaya

Eg of 1 leader - how he understands the need of his employees. He does not increase salary - but gives appropriate bonus so that his family is taken care of.

Eg of Shalibhadra. Story of kheer.

5) Temptation free character.
Eg of Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel. Zaverben when died, he lived for 75 years & he was compelled to remarry again.
He could not say No. But he was strong that the day the new wife walked in, he had walked out of life.

He had a small vyasan - bidi smoking - he was smart - he was put in Sabarmati Jail - superintendent offered him a bidi.
But he denied because he knew aaje bidi aape chhe - kaale desh ni information kadhaavse.

A student asked - aaj na corporate world ma character hovu kya jaruri chhe....??

Ans:
Eg 1) Shane Warne - he was best at cricket but his affairs brought him down.

2) Azharuddin - once involved in match fixing he did not get support & was thrown out even being a Legend player.

3) Tiger Woods - he was the best golf player but once his extra-marital affairs were out his name & brand was down.
Markets being at TOP, the brands of which he was a brand ambassador - were down 40-60% on that day.

Aa gully no kutro hoi ae bhase tyaare - ae gully no raja.
Ae biji gully ma jai ne bhase tyaare ae gully no kutro aave tyaare ae raja hoi Bas aem aj "Career aa gully no raja, Character aetle aa duniya no raja".

Eg of Jayghoshsurishwarji M.S. -
Bhadrankarvijayji M.S. ae aemna Guru.
Dawaa ni bottle tuti gayi,
Aemne puchhyu aa Kon chhe tyaare bijaa Gurubhagwant ae kidhu aa Jayghosh Muniraj chhe.

Ae bolyaa aa dabbi ma dawa nathi bharto - bohu badhu punya baandhe chhe.

Ae aapna Gachhadhipati Shrimadvijay Jayghoshsurishwarji Maharaja....!! 

550 muni o na - naam jaane, akshar jaane, awaaj jaane.

Various other examples of his superb authority.

"If you want to lead the people, follow them".

"Lok laagni samajhtaa sikho..!!"

Difference between Boss & a Leader.
Boss says GO - leader says LET'S GO.
Boss KNOWS HOW THE WORK IS DONE - leader KNOWS HOW THE WORK IS TO BE DONE.

Michael Jordan born in US in 1963 - not basketball player.
They were poor. His father told take this tee-shirt - go sold it for 1dollar - how can I..?
But his father knew he was a marketing champ. It goes above to 2 dollars, 20 dollars & then 2000 dollars.

"Good behaviour follows everything".

"SAME PRODUCT DOES NOT FETCH A LOT, BUT MARKETING OF SAME PRODUCT FETCHES A LOT".

Next PYS No. 64 - 15th Aug'16 Monday - Same Venue..!!

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